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cheating
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出轨
I, 25 years old, B, 160,45 Kg, non-solo, postgraduate student, boyfriend, 25 years old, 170,66 Kg, non-solo, UI designer, monthly salary 12K.
本人，25岁，B，160，45Kg，非独，研究生在读，男友，25岁，170，66Kg，非独，UI设计师，月薪12K。
We are high school classmates, high school confession, freshman together. Super good to me, and I PU very high, has been different, the first time to each other.
我们是高中同学，高中表白，大一在一起。对我超好，而我PU很高，一直异地，第一次给彼此。
I graduated from university in 2015. My boyfriend is shenzhen. I have been a teacher in chongqing for 2 years.
15年大学毕业，男友深圳，我在重庆当老师2年。
At the end of 2015, I cheated on him and broke up with him for half a year. After getting along with A, I felt it was not suitable for him. He cut the scissors of the other party and found out that he was pregnant after breaking up. After my boyfriend knew,
15年底我出轨，分手半年，男友一直挽回。和A相处后感觉很不适合，对方剪子，分手后发现怀孕。
he asked his mother to accompany me to have an abortion. The whole family took good care of me.
男友知道后让他妈妈陪我去流产，全家很照顾我。
my boyfriend is not always mind this matter, before said not to mind, but my heart has always been mind. Now more will provide emotional value, is the stone attribute changed?
男友是不是一直介意这件事，以前说不嫌弃，但是我内心一直介意。现更会提供情绪价值，是石头属性变了？
Boyfriend is highly motivated, study hard, active fitness. Now I often praise her boyfriend sweetly, occasionally because of the distance PU explosion.
男友上进心很强，努力学习，积极健身。现在我常嘴甜夸男友，偶尔因异地爆PU。
I will not send my photos in the moments before, only after several times. Feel high. Help is: can we get married?
之前不会在朋友圈发我照片，说几次才发。感觉自己高攀。求助是：我们能顺利进入婚姻吗？
My mother has been against it for years. Now high emotional concentration, every day on the phone, shopping. Marriage used to come up, but now it doesn't.
我妈多年一直反对。现在感情浓度高，每天打电话，东西随便买。以前会提结婚，现在不提。
I loved my boyfriend and was terrified of the hurt I had caused him. Shall I bring up the subject of marriage? Wait for your boyfriend to initiate? How can I get married without being retaliated by my boyfriend?
我很爱男友，也很害怕自己对男友造成的伤害让他难以释怀。结婚这件事需要我提吗？还是等男友主动？我怎样才能不被男友报复，顺利进入婚姻。
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From the moment you cheat, your relationship with your boyfriend has gone cold. What's more, your cheating situation has become so serious that you're pregnant with a scissors man and have your boyfriend's parents accompany you to have an abortion. Even if you can by luck enter marriage with the other side, when MV of oneself after marriage is lowest and feebly resists, also can suffer the retaliation of the other side necessarily.
从出轨的那一刻起，你和男友的这段感情就已经凉透了。更何况你的出轨情节已经严重到了为窃偶剪子男怀孕，并让男友家长陪你打胎的程度。即便你能侥幸与对方进入婚姻，在婚后自己MV最低无力反抗的时候，也必然会遭到对方的报复。
In this relationship, the problem is not so much that you are trying to outdo the other person, but that it is your infidelity that is causing the most damage to the relationship. If you are looking forward to a healthy and normal marriage, it is advisable to break up with your partner as soon as possible. Especially at present the other party has been unwilling to long choose to you, you jump on the results will not be as you wish.
在这段关系中，高攀对方并不是最严重的问题，你的出轨行为才是令这段感情万劫不复的真正元凶。如果你还期待一段健康正常的婚姻，建议你趁早与对方分手。尤其目前对方已经不愿再对你长择，你贸然扑上去的结果更不会如你所愿。
Finally, it's important to note that in the next relationship, the abortion experience should be at the height of the relationship and the next boyfriend to confess. Just in case it gets out in the future and blows up your PU again.
最后，要提醒你的是，在下一段感情中，堕胎的经历要选在感情浓度最高时和下任男友坦白。以防未来这件事情败露，再次爆掉你的PU。
