人的矛盾總在於，渴望被理解，又害怕被看穿。
The paradox of man is that he desires to be understood, and afraid to be seen.
一開始的時候，總覺得來日方長，什麼都有機會，殊不知人生是減法，見一面少一面，來日不方長。
At the beginning of the time, always feel that the days are long, what have the opportunity, little do not know that life is subtraction, see side less side, the day is not long.
只怕人海太遼闊轉眼就錯過。
I am only afraid that the huge crowd is too vast for us to miss.
懂你的人 才配得上你的餘生。
The people who know you are worthy of the rest of your life.
有多少人故意賭氣關掉手機 ，忍不住打開後，發現什麼也沒有；自作多情以為自己在他心裡有多重要，到最後才發現自己原來是個笑話。別再傻了，人家根本不在乎你，你還是要多愛自己。
How many people turn off their mobile phones in a fit of pique, can't help but turn them on and find nothing; He thought he was too important in his heart, only to find that he was a joke. Don't be silly, people don't care about you, you still have to love yourself.
一個人最好的狀態就是：眼裡寫滿了故事，臉上卻不見風霜。
A man is at his best when his eyes are full of stories and his face is bare of dust.
過錯是暫時的遺憾，而錯過則是永遠的遺憾。
Mistake is temporary regret but missing is the forever one.
如果非要等你有一天受傷了、想通了，才想起我的好處，才想要對我好，我也不稀罕了。我的付出只有一次，你丟了就沒了。
If you have to wait for one day injured, think through, just think of my good, just want to be good to me, I don't care. I pay only once, you lost it.
在這世上珍貴的東西總是比較罕有，所以這世上只有一個你。
Precious things are very few in this world. That is the reason there is just one you.
故事別輕易說出口，留給懂你的人聽。
Don't tell the story easily, and leave it to the people who know you.
他若喜歡你，你脾氣再大都叫個性；他若不喜歡你，就算你溫順的像只貓，他特麼都嫌你掉毛……
—— 喜歡勝過所有道理，原則抵不過我樂意；遇到喜歡的人，千萬不要騙自己啊 ！
If he likes you, most of your temper is called personality; If he doesn't like you, even if you are as gentle as a cat, he thinks you lose your hair...
Love is better than all reason, principle is equal to but I like; When you meet someone you like, don't cheat yourself!
把期望降低，把依賴變少，你會過得更好。
Lower your expectations,
reduce your dependence,
and you will live better.
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