人的矛盾总在于，渴望被理解，又害怕被看穿。
The paradox of man is that he desires to be understood, and afraid to be seen.
一开始的时候，总觉得来日方长，什么都有机会，殊不知人生是减法，见一面少一面，来日不方长。
At the beginning of the time, always feel that the days are long, what have the opportunity, little do not know that life is subtraction, see side less side, the day is not long.
只怕人海太辽阔转眼就错过。
I am only afraid that the huge crowd is too vast for us to miss.
懂你的人 才配得上你的余生。
The people who know you are worthy of the rest of your life.
有多少人故意赌气关掉手机 ，忍不住打开后，发现什么也没有；自作多情以为自己在他心里有多重要，到最后才发现自己原来是个笑话。别再傻了，人家根本不在乎你，你还是要多爱自己。
How many people turn off their mobile phones in a fit of pique, can't help but turn them on and find nothing; He thought he was too important in his heart, only to find that he was a joke. Don't be silly, people don't care about you, you still have to love yourself.
一个人最好的状态就是：眼里写满了故事，脸上却不见风霜。
A man is at his best when his eyes are full of stories and his face is bare of dust.
过错是暂时的遗憾，而错过则是永远的遗憾。
Mistake is temporary regret but missing is the forever one.
如果非要等你有一天受伤了、想通了，才想起我的好处，才想要对我好，我也不稀罕了。我的付出只有一次，你丢了就没了。
If you have to wait for one day injured, think through, just think of my good, just want to be good to me, I don't care. I pay only once, you lost it.
在这世上珍贵的东西总是比较罕有，所以这世上只有一个你。
Precious things are very few in this world. That is the reason there is just one you.
故事别轻易说出口，留给懂你的人听。
Don't tell the story easily, and leave it to the people who know you.
他若喜欢你，你脾气再大都叫个性；他若不喜欢你，就算你温顺的像只猫，他特么都嫌你掉毛……
—— 喜欢胜过所有道理，原则抵不过我乐意；遇到喜欢的人，千万不要骗自己啊 ！
If he likes you, most of your temper is called personality; If he doesn't like you, even if you are as gentle as a cat, he thinks you lose your hair...
Love is better than all reason, principle is equal to but I like; When you meet someone you like, don't cheat yourself!
把期望降低，把依赖变少，你会过得更好。
Lower your expectations,
reduce your dependence,
and you will live better.
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