一个生活在现实之中的人，都渴望成功，都期待出任CEO，迎娶白富美（高富帅），都有一颗向往走上人生巅峰的狂热的心。
然而，成功者毕竟是少数……
最近哈佛大学研究得出：成为“废柴”一定有以下这九大根源……一起来看看，有则改之无则加勉。
一起努力成为更好的人吧！
1. 犹豫不决 Indecision
What is worse than recklessness is hesitation.
比鲁莽更糟糕的是犹豫不决。
Those who sway with every wind are just like the grass on the top of a wall, no matter how powerful , are always easy to be defeated by those who have a strong belief. Act vigorously and resolutely will inevitably make mistakes, however, is better than doing nothing.
像墙头草一样摇摆不定的人，无论其他方面多么强大，在生命的竞赛中总是容易被那些坚定地人挤到一边。雷厉风行难免会犯错，但比什么也不敢做强。
"The fear of error is the destruction of progress," said Whitehead.
怀特·黑德说：“畏惧错误就是毁灭进步。”
2. 拖延 Procrastination
Most of the time procrastination is to escape from a problem and laziness.
很多时候拖延就是逃避问题和懒惰。
The famous thinker - Romain Rolland said “Laziness is a strange thing, it makes you feel that your situation is comfort, is a rest, is a blessing; but in fact it is boring, tired, depressed.”
著名思想家罗曼·罗兰说：“懒惰是很奇怪的东西，它让你以为那是安逸，是休息，是福气；但实际上它所给你的是无聊，是倦怠，是消沉。”
3. 三分钟热度 Brief period of enthusiasm
80% of the failure is due to give up halfway in the world.
世界上有80%的失败都源于半途而废。
Most of people had the experience of making plans ambitiously, and then had to give up in despair.
几乎所有的人都有过“雄心勃勃地制定计划，心灰意冷地放弃计划”的经历。
4. 害怕拒绝 Fear of rejection
Heavy and fragile self-esteem.
厚重而脆弱的自尊。
Most of the time, the pain that we go through in our interpersonal relationships is always in connection with "you think you were rejected".
大多数时候，我们在人际关系中感受到的“痛”，都和“感到被拒绝”有关。
5. 自我设限 Self-handicapping
Kill your latent ability.
杀死自己的潜能力。
La Rochefoucauld said: mediocre people are always complaining about things they do not understand.
拉罗什富科说：平庸的人总是在抱怨自己不懂的东西。
6. 逃避现实 Escape from reality
Escapists prefer to create their own little world.
逃避现实者更愿意营造一个属于自己的小世界。
People's tragedy is they have a great ambition but puny ability.
人的悲剧在于眼高手低。
7. 总找借口 Excuses
It is not my fault.
错不在我。
Once people made a mistake, the first reaction is often self defense.
人一旦犯了错，第一反应常常是自我辩护。
8. 恐惧 Fear
Timid and cowardly.
谨小慎微的且懦弱。
9. 拒绝学习 Refuse to learn
You are not lonely, just don't want to learn.
你不是寂寞，你只是不想学习。
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