“一個男人有多強大，是他自己的事，但是一個男人能為你做多少事，才關乎愛不愛你
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一個男人不管本事有多大，賺的錢再多，最重要的是要看他舍不捨得給你花，他會不會把你的小事當做他的大事，掏心掏肺的對你好。
愛你的男人雖然你嘴上不說，他都會心甘情願的為你做很多事情；而不愛你的男人，哪怕你提了合理的要求，他也會置之不理，一直迴避。
所以千萬不要被男人的外表財富所迷戀，最重要的是要用心去感受眼前的這個男人心裡是否真的在乎你。
“你越包容，你自己的生活越好過，你越計較，自己的空間越小”
生活不能事事順心，特別是結婚生孩子後，女人不僅要面對生活上的各種難題，還有家裡繁瑣的日常小事，難搞的婆媳關係。
生活不是一較高下，我們每個人欠缺的是換位思考。平時遇到不開心的事不要愁眉苦臉，要學著心放寬一點，對人對事要多點包容和體諒。
心若包容，處處都是春天；心若計較，時時都有抱怨。
"Love needs creativity and design; marriage needs management and management."
In real life, love and marriage are never equal. Love is the romance of the wind, the snow and the moon. But marriage is the dullness of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the everlasting guardianship.
When two people move from love to marriage, they should also remember to give each other some surprises and rituals, so that he feels loved and needed.
After marriage, we should manage and maintain our marriage carefully. Only by mutual understanding, praise and support, can we have a long and happy marriage.
“一味的隱忍，會讓別人看不清你的原則；必要的憤怒，反而能讓人明白你的底線在哪裡”
感情的世界裡不是一味地忍讓就會皆大歡喜。善良是好事，但你的善良必須帶點鋒芒，有一些原則的問題必須要守住自己的底線，否則傷害你的人就會越來越變本加厲。
人生苦短，有些事情忍一時會越想越氣，退一步會越想越虧，所以不要一直做個卑微的老好人，這樣最後委屈的只剩下自己。
勇敢一點，想說就去說，想做就去做。不要讓軟弱和妥協一直圍繞在自己身邊。
"Women's resilience and tension are the basis of changing the world. Every woman has two chances to change the world: one is to influence the man, boyfriend or husband around her; the other is to educate her children well.
It is true to say that women are an important factor in deciding whether a family is happy or not. Smart women know how to use wisdom and emotion to cultivate excellent husbands and children.
They are feminine in life and always attract men to themselves; they are self-confident and elegant, and proud of their children.
Whether in career or family, they will demand more of themselves, set good examples for their husbands and children, let them feel happy all the time, so that their home will always be their warmest harbour.
“一個女人最大的踏實，不是源於依賴，而是來自認可”
無論哪個年齡，都要記得女人的安全感要自己給自己。
每個女人最好都能有一份自己的事業，不論大小，要有自己賺錢的本事，有自己的朋友和交際圈，這樣就能在事業中不斷提升自己的魅力。
有一份工作不僅可以手頭有一些積蓄，也能獲得別人的一份尊重和認可，不用依附任何人，不用伸手去問別人要，這樣的生活才每天踏實快樂！
新的一年趁陽光正好，趁微風不噪，都好好經營自己，珍惜眼前的大好時光，幸福自然會與你不期而遇
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