“一个男人有多强大，是他自己的事，但是一个男人能为你做多少事，才关乎爱不爱你
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一个男人不管本事有多大，赚的钱再多，最重要的是要看他舍不舍得给你花，他会不会把你的小事当做他的大事，掏心掏肺的对你好。
爱你的男人虽然你嘴上不说，他都会心甘情愿的为你做很多事情；而不爱你的男人，哪怕你提了合理的要求，他也会置之不理，一直回避。
所以千万不要被男人的外表财富所迷恋，最重要的是要用心去感受眼前的这个男人心里是否真的在乎你。
“你越包容，你自己的生活越好过，你越计较，自己的空间越小”
生活不能事事顺心，特别是结婚生孩子后，女人不仅要面对生活上的各种难题，还有家里繁琐的日常小事，难搞的婆媳关系。
生活不是一较高下，我们每个人欠缺的是换位思考。平时遇到不开心的事不要愁眉苦脸，要学着心放宽一点，对人对事要多点包容和体谅。
心若包容，处处都是春天；心若计较，时时都有抱怨。
"Love needs creativity and design; marriage needs management and management."
In real life, love and marriage are never equal. Love is the romance of the wind, the snow and the moon. But marriage is the dullness of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the everlasting guardianship.
When two people move from love to marriage, they should also remember to give each other some surprises and rituals, so that he feels loved and needed.
After marriage, we should manage and maintain our marriage carefully. Only by mutual understanding, praise and support, can we have a long and happy marriage.
“一味的隐忍，会让别人看不清你的原则；必要的愤怒，反而能让人明白你的底线在哪里”
感情的世界里不是一味地忍让就会皆大欢喜。善良是好事，但你的善良必须带点锋芒，有一些原则的问题必须要守住自己的底线，否则伤害你的人就会越来越变本加厉。
人生苦短，有些事情忍一时会越想越气，退一步会越想越亏，所以不要一直做个卑微的老好人，这样最后委屈的只剩下自己。
勇敢一点，想说就去说，想做就去做。不要让软弱和妥协一直围绕在自己身边。
"Women's resilience and tension are the basis of changing the world. Every woman has two chances to change the world: one is to influence the man, boyfriend or husband around her; the other is to educate her children well.
It is true to say that women are an important factor in deciding whether a family is happy or not. Smart women know how to use wisdom and emotion to cultivate excellent husbands and children.
They are feminine in life and always attract men to themselves; they are self-confident and elegant, and proud of their children.
Whether in career or family, they will demand more of themselves, set good examples for their husbands and children, let them feel happy all the time, so that their home will always be their warmest harbour.
“一个女人最大的踏实，不是源于依赖，而是来自认可”
无论哪个年龄，都要记得女人的安全感要自己给自己。
每个女人最好都能有一份自己的事业，不论大小，要有自己赚钱的本事，有自己的朋友和交际圈，这样就能在事业中不断提升自己的魅力。
有一份工作不仅可以手头有一些积蓄，也能获得别人的一份尊重和认可，不用依附任何人，不用伸手去问别人要，这样的生活才每天踏实快乐！
新的一年趁阳光正好，趁微风不噪，都好好经营自己，珍惜眼前的大好时光，幸福自然会与你不期而遇
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