一個生活在現實之中的人，都渴望成功，都期待出任CEO，迎娶白富美（高富帥），都有一顆嚮往走上人生巔峰的狂熱的心。
然而，成功者畢竟是少數……
最近哈佛大學研究得出：成為“廢柴”一定有以下這九大根源……一起來看看，有則改之無則加勉。
一起努力成為更好的人吧！
1. 猶豫不決 Indecision
What is worse than recklessness is hesitation.
比魯莽更糟糕的是猶豫不決。
Those who sway with every wind are just like the grass on the top of a wall, no matter how powerful , are always easy to be defeated by those who have a strong belief. Act vigorously and resolutely will inevitably make mistakes, however, is better than doing nothing.
像牆頭草一樣搖擺不定的人，無論其他方面多麼強大，在生命的競賽中總是容易被那些堅定地人擠到一邊。雷厲風行難免會犯錯，但比什麼也不敢做強。
"The fear of error is the destruction of progress," said Whitehead.
懷特·黑德說：“畏懼錯誤就是毀滅進步。”
2. 拖延 Procrastination
Most of the time procrastination is to escape from a problem and laziness.
很多時候拖延就是逃避問題和懶惰。
The famous thinker - Romain Rolland said “Laziness is a strange thing, it makes you feel that your situation is comfort, is a rest, is a blessing; but in fact it is boring, tired, depressed.”
著名思想家羅曼·羅蘭說：“懶惰是很奇怪的東西，它讓你以為那是安逸，是休息，是福氣；但實際上它所給你的是無聊，是倦怠，是消沉。”
3. 三分鐘熱度 Brief period of enthusiasm
80% of the failure is due to give up halfway in the world.
世界上有80%的失敗都源於半途而廢。
Most of people had the experience of making plans ambitiously, and then had to give up in despair.
幾乎所有的人都有過“雄心勃勃地制定計劃，心灰意冷地放棄計劃”的經歷。
4. 害怕拒絕 Fear of rejection
Heavy and fragile self-esteem.
厚重而脆弱的自尊。
Most of the time, the pain that we go through in our interpersonal relationships is always in connection with "you think you were rejected".
大多數時候，我們在人際關係中感受到的“痛”，都和“感到被拒絕”有關。
5. 自我設限 Self-handicapping
Kill your latent ability.
殺死自己的潛能力。
La Rochefoucauld said: mediocre people are always complaining about things they do not understand.
拉羅什富科說：平庸的人總是在抱怨自己不懂的東西。
6. 逃避現實 Escape from reality
Escapists prefer to create their own little world.
逃避現實者更願意營造一個屬於自己的小世界。
People's tragedy is they have a great ambition but puny ability.
人的悲劇在於眼高手低。
7. 總找藉口 Excuses
It is not my fault.
錯不在我。
Once people made a mistake, the first reaction is often self defense.
人一旦犯了錯，第一反應常常是自我辯護。
8. 恐懼 Fear
Timid and cowardly.
謹小慎微的且懦弱。
9. 拒絕學習 Refuse to learn
You are not lonely, just don't want to learn.
你不是寂寞，你只是不想學習。
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