Ritesh RanjanI can never even think of this type. India is the safest country for everyone. India always cordially welcome to everyone. If anyone is not safe in India, trust me she /he won't be safe in any country. India is well known for its ‘Unity in diversity.But here asked ‘why do you want to leave India, if you do?Although I don't want to leave India but these reasons may be reasons for me to leave India if I have to leave it ever.Hinduism is considering as Patriotism : If you support Ram mandir, then yes you are a true Patriot. If you worship cows, yes you are a true patriot. If you hate Muslims,definitely you are true patriot. If you support Sadhvi Niranjan Jyoti and hate any Ahmed or Khan (who accused for stealing), yes you are patriot. If you boycott Shah Rukh Khan's movies, don't say anything you are a certified patriot. If you oppose caste based reservation but feel proud to be a Kshatriya or Brahman, oh yes you are a true patriot, only you think about India, everyone except Hindu is traitor. Recently I heard Uma Bharati's statement regarding Babri masque demolition. She says ‘Humne Babri Masjid kisi saajish ke tahat nahin giraya, jo bhi kiya khullam khulla kiya aur hame is par garv hai. (we didn't demolish Babri Masque with pre planned conspiracy, we demolished it openly, and we are proud on it). Suppose if there were Temple inspite of Masque and a Muslim leader inspite of Uma Bharati, what would be scene? I don't even want to guess. I know Ram mandir is a very sensitive matter or it has been made a very sensitive matter by the politicians for the sake of vote bank. I live in Gorakhpur U P, I have lots of Muslim friends, very few of them oppose Ram mandir take it as 2%.Maximum support Ram mandir and maximum don't want to talk on this issue because they think this will only spread hatred between Hindu and Muslim, and we should wait for decision made by court. I am a proud Hindu but I always oppose extremism. I always consider Hindu and Muslim as brothers, I believe in our great culture “ Ganga Jamuni Tahzeeb.” I am inspired by a dialogue narrated by Paresh Rawal in the movie OMG: OH MY GOD, when TV anchor asks his views on religion, he says ‘Mere hisab se to dharm do hi kaam karta hai, ya to insaan ko bebas banata hai ya fir aatankawadi.’ (Accordingly to me, Religions do two works, either it makes a person helpless or terrorist.)Healthy debate is a myth now a days in India : I have a very bad habit, when I debate with a BJP supporter, I pretend that I support Congress or AAP. When I debate with an AAP supporter or Congress supporter, I pretend that I am a BJP supporter. But what I get in return, although I have some good debates too but 95% times I felt disappointed and abused by other one. There is very less chances of good and healthy debates, no one wants to listen a single bad word against one's supported party. I firmly believe that appreciation and criticism are very essential parts of democracy, excess of criticism leads to dictatorship and excess of appreciation also leads to dictatorship. If we want to make our country great we should support our politicians in good decisions whether we support that party or not and criticise for bad decisions, especially when we support that party. No one can be perfect it is our duty to correct them. Don't be a blind follower or blind hater. We all love our country, our India. Just don't support any one on the basis of caste, region, religion, or having a hatred issue.Corruption : corruption is the biggest problem of India. Recently in a survey, 67% people accepted that they had to give bribe for their works, this is even worse than Pakistan. I was reading a local news yesterday, a man had paid rs 5 lakhs as a bribe for his work, he was a middle class man and hardly managed that amount. When he went to office the day before yesterday and asked about his work, a babu (clerk) asked rs one lakh more, this was really as a tsunami for that person, he poured kerosene oil on him and tried to attempt suicide. Although he is safe now but this incident really left a worse mark in my heart. When will India be free of corruption, when will people enjoy their life and not suffer. India is the only country where people feel unsafe to see a policeman, too much irony. But I personally think no any government can make corruption free India, it is our duty, we should do something on our level, we should be aware, when every individual Indian will stand against corruption, then India may be corruption free (I used ‘may be’ cause there are maximum people who don't hesitate to give bribe, some give for illegal works and some give for necessity without those facilities they can't servive and bribe is only option.)Pollution and health facilities : India is a underdeveloped country, the level of pollution increases day by day, I lived in New Delhi for six months and when I went back to my home town Gorakhpur, I was suffering from Asthma. Even Gorakhpur is also not much pure. The population of Gorakhpur is increasing drastically and pollution is increasing thrice proportional to population. If this situation persists longer then 2/3 of population will be suffered from Asthma in 2030. And there is no more hope for reducing the level of pollution. Now health facilities, we are worse than some African countries in health based facilities, we are lacking in doctors, we don't fulfill the ratio between doctor and patient. There are 1800 doctors on 10 lakhs of population. And it is reducing day by day. Medicine department is also corrupted, if you are poor, don't have enough money to be treated well. You won't be treated good and even some workers and doctors can misbehave with you. I have seen these types of cases many times. Whenever I visit medical college of my city. I see how poor people are sitting on ground and how they are humiliated by junior doctors and pharmacists. They are not provided enough medicine as ordered by government and doctors. Those who are rich prefer private hospitals or foreign hospitals but an ordinary person can't afford expenses of private hospital, I have seen a person dying from malaria, which could be treated easily. The huminity of doctors are on the edge of dearth.Media : Indian media are really negative, whether it is print media, social media or audio visual media. Every medium of news is only spreading negativity, fear, hatred. What we read, hear or watch leaves on us a great effect on our mentality, of we are only engulfed by negativity, how can we expect we will do some better for India. Just read a newspaper, turn whole pages and you will find 90% negative news. There is also happening good things too, every day someone makes us proud, someone helps to raise people's living standards but you will never find these positive news in newspapers or news channels, they are busy to gain viewers and TRP. Positive news won't increase their TRP. If someone wants to create something great, she /he must be optimistic and positive during the phase of creation, but can we be positive more than two hours? I don't think so. And this is the reason, after having second largest population on earth we are miles away from being developed and we are one of poorest country. How can anyone achieve great things if that person has negative mindset and even don't trust oneself. Now I don't watch news channels, I have deactivated all social media accounts except Quora, I feel really good and optimistic, I want to contribute in development of India so I have to leave these news channels and social media for one more year.These are the reasons, excess of any two reasons can make me think whether I should live in India or not. But I will always be Indian and proud on myself to be an Indian.Correct me if I am wrong in any point and if you have been hurt by any statement please tell me instead of having any grudge against me.
我從來沒有想過這個問題。印度是最安全的國家。印度總是熱情歡迎每一個人。如果有人在印度覺得不安全，相信我，他在任何國家都不會安全。印度以“多元統一”而聞名世界。但這裡問的是：“為什麼你想離開印度，你為什麼要離開？”雖然我不想離開印度，但如果我不得不離開印度，這些理由可能是我離開印度的理由。
印度教被認為是愛國主義的：如果你支持曼迪爾，那你就是真正的愛國者。如果你崇拜牛，是的，你是一個真正的愛國者。如果你憎恨，你絕對是真正的愛國者。如果你支持Sadhvi Niranjan Jyoti，並且憎恨任何被指控偷竊的艾哈邁德或可汗，你就是愛國者。如果你抵制沙魯克汗的電影，不需解釋你是百分百的愛國者。如果你反對基於種姓的保留，但感到自豪的是成為一個剎帝利或婆羅門，哦，是的，你是一個真正的愛國者，只有你想到印度，除了印度，想別的都是叛徒。
最近我聽到了Uma Bharati關於巴布裡·馬斯克拆除的聲明。她一直在重複說：“我的名字叫~~~我的名字叫~~~我的名字叫~~~（我們沒有用預先策劃的陰謀摧毀巴布裡清真寺，我們公開地摧毀了它，我們對此感到自豪）。假設有神廟，有清真寺，有領袖，有Uma Bharati，會發生什麼場面？我都不想猜。
我知道曼迪爾是一個非常敏感的話題，或者它已經成為一個非常敏感的問題政治家因為銀行投票。我住在哥拉克布爾，我有很多朋友，他們中很少有人反對曼迪爾。最大程度的支持Ram mandir和Maximum，他們不想討論這個問題，因為他們認為這隻會傳播仇恨在印度教和之間，我們應該等待法院作出決定。我是一個驕傲的印度教徒，但我總是反對極端主義。我總是把印度教和看作兄弟，我相信我們偉大的文化“Ganga Jamuni Tahzeeb”。我的靈感來自於Paresh Rawal在電影《omg》中講述的一段對話：哦，我的上帝，當電視主播問他對宗教的看法時，他說：“僅僅是他自己對宗教的看法。你可以說：“你是我的朋友。”（因此，對我來說，宗教有兩種作用，要麼使人無助，要麼使人成為恐怖分子。）
健康的辯論現在在印度已經成了一個神話：我有一個非常糟糕的習慣，當我和人民黨的支持者辯論時，我假裝我支持國會或aap。當我和aap的支持者或國會的支持者辯論時，我假裝我是人民黨的支持者。但我得到的回報，雖然我也有一些很好的辯論技巧，但95%的時候我感到失望和被別人虐待。好的和健康的辯論機會非常少，沒有人願意聽任何一個對自己支持的政黨的惡言惡語。我堅信，欣賞和批評是的重要組成部分，過度的批評會導致讀才，過度的欣賞也會導致讀才。如果我們想要使我們的國家偉大，我們就應該支持我們的政治家作出好的決定，不管我們是否支持那個政黨，並且批評壞的決定，特別是當我們支持那個政黨的時候。沒有人是完美的，我們有責任改正他們。別盲目的跟從或憎恨別人。我們都愛我們的國家，我們的印度。只是不支持任何人基於種姓，地區，宗教，或有仇恨的問題。
腐敗：腐敗是印度最大的問題。最近在一項調查中，67%的人承認他們的工作必須行賄，這比巴基斯坦還要糟糕。昨天我在看當地新聞，一個男人為了工作付了5000萬盧比作為賄賂，他是個中產階級，幾乎沒有那麼多錢。前天，當他去辦公室詢問他的工作時，一個店員又問他要錢，這真的是引發海嘯了，他把煤油倒在他身上，試圖自殺。雖然他現在很安全，但這件事在我心裡留下了嚴重的影響。印度什麼時候才能擺脫腐敗，人民什麼時候才能享受生活而不受苦。印度是唯一讓人們感到不安全的國家，看到警察太諷刺了。但我個人認為，沒有任何政府能夠使印度擺脫腐敗，這是我們的責任，我們應該在我們的水平上做一些事情，我們應該意識到，當每個印度人都將站出來反對腐敗，那麼印度可能是沒有腐敗的（我曾經說過“可能”，因為有很多人會毫不猶豫地行賄，有些人會為非法工程捐錢，有些人會在沒有那些他們無法提供的設施的情況下提供必需品，而賄賂只是一種選擇。）
汙染和衛生設施：印度是一個不發達的國家，汙染程度日益嚴重，我在新德里住了六個月，當我回到我的家鄉哥拉克普爾，我患上哮喘了。即使是戈拉克普爾也不太乾淨。戈拉克布爾的人口急劇增加，汙染也是人口的三倍。如果這種情況持續更長時間，那麼到2030年，2/3的人口將患有哮喘。減少汙染的希望已經渺茫。現在的衛生設施，我們在衛生設施方面比一些非洲國家差，我們缺乏醫生，我們沒有達到醫患比例。，每一千萬人口只有1800名醫生。它在一天天地減少。醫藥部門也是腐敗的，如果你很窮，就沒有足夠的錢去好好治療。你不會得到良好的待遇，甚至一些工人和醫生也會對你行為不端。我見過很多這樣的情況。每當我訪問我所在城市的醫學院。我看到窮人坐在地上，他們是如何被初級醫生和藥劑師羞辱的。政府和醫生沒有給他們提供足夠的藥品。那些有錢的人喜歡私人醫院或外國醫院，但是一個普通人負擔不起私人醫院的費用，我見過一個人死於瘧疾，這是很容易治療的。醫生缺乏謙遜和道德。
媒體：印度媒體全是負面的，無論是印刷媒體、社交媒體還是視聽媒體。每一種新聞媒介都在傳播消極、恐懼和仇恨。我們所讀到的、聽到的或看到的東西對我們的心態有很大的影響，我們只是被消極所吞沒，我們怎麼能指望我們能為印度做得更好。只要讀一份報紙，翻翻整頁，你就會發現90%的負面新聞。也有好事發生，每天都有人讓我們感到驕傲，有人幫助我們提高人們的生活水平，但是你永遠不會在報紙或新聞頻道上看到這些積極的消息，他們忙於獲得觀眾和閱讀量。積極的消息不會增加他們的閱讀量。如果有人想創造偉大的東西，她/他在創造階段必須是樂觀和積極的，但我們能在兩個多小時的時間裡積極嗎？我不這麼認為。這就是原因，在擁有地球上第二大人口之後，我們離發展還有好幾英里，我們是最貧窮的國家之一。如果一個人有消極的心態，甚至不相信自己，他怎麼能取得偉大的成就呢？現在我不看新聞頻道了，除了quora，我已經關閉了所有的社交媒體賬戶，我感覺非常好而且變得樂觀了，我想為印度的發展做出貢獻，所以我不得不離開這些新聞頻道和社交媒體一年。
這些都是原因，任何兩個原因過度發展都可以讓我思考，我是否應該在印度生活。但我將永遠是印度人，併為自己是一個印度人而自豪。如果我那句話說錯了，傷害了你，請告訴我，而不要對我有任何怨恨。
Anonymous1. Most of the work done in firms in India is just the donkey work which is passed on to Indian counterparts by the US based companies. Given that, majority of the population are involved in technology or the management sector, it is inevitable that they would be working for a US based company. The quality of work is far far better in developed nations as compared to India, for the same company.2. Noise. India is just more nosier, and polluted compared to the developed nations. People have little regard for noise pollution and incessantly honk their cars and trucks on the road. I can't even imagine opening my window on some evenings. This might not be a big deal for others, but having seen developed nations, I can say I would much more prefer a clean and quite surrounding.3. Struggle. Your average package after passing out from a fair MBA college in India is around half of what is costed you to study there. Your average package after passing out from a fair MBA college in USA is around double of what is costed you to study there. So basically there is lesser return on investment, lesser standard of living. more years of living in debt and, struggle.4. Places are getting smaller. Let's face it. Having one of the highest population densities in the world is doing us no good. Places are getting smaller, crowded and expensive. This means a variety of things. You don't get a place to sit while travelling in the bus. Places like train stations are just bursting with people. it becomes more difficult to maintain places like public toilets etc. Which means lack of sanitation. and it goes on.5. Our Education System is broken. Reservation. Rote learning. Coaching classes to coach you to get into coaching classes to coach you to get into IIT. Pressure on students to study for IIT from 7th Standard. No emphasis on creativity. Need I say more?6. Women Security. I don't want to live in a country where I am in constant fear of being raped if I find myself in an empty parking space or a nearly empty metro train after 10pm. I don't want to live in a country where I have to be accompanied by a male friend if I have to leave office late someday. I don't want to live in a country where I can't sleep in peace at night in a train because there is a bachelor in my compartment. I don't want to live in a country where I don't have the freedom to wear what I want because I might attract attention. I just don't want to live in this constant fear.There are many reasons but these are the ones that completely turn me off. And most importantly, the best reason to go out of India is that it reduces the population pressure in the country which is the need of the hour. Countries with less population generally perform better than densely populated ones.
1.印度企業所做的大部分工作都是由總部設在美國的公司傳給印度同行的。鑑於大多數人都從事技術或管理行業，他們將不可避免地為一家總部設在美國的公司工作。與印度相比，發達國家的工作質量要比同一家分公司好得多。
2.噪音。與發達國家相比，印度只是更引人注目，汙染更嚴重。人們很少注意噪音汙染，在路上不停地按喇叭鳴汽車和卡車。我甚至不能想象晚上打開我的窗戶。這對其他人來說可能不是什麼大問題，但是我看到了發達國家，我可以說我更喜歡一個乾淨的環境。
3.奮鬥。在印度，你從一所公平的mba院校畢業後，你的平均薪水大約是你在那裡學習的費用的一半。你從美國一所公平的mba院校畢業後的平均費用是你在那裡學習的費用的兩倍。因此，基本上投資回報率較低，生活水平較低。多年的債務和掙扎。
4.這些地方越來越小。讓我們面對現實吧，擁有世界上人口密度最高的國家之一對我們沒有好處。這些地方越來越小，越來越擁擠，東西越來越貴。這意味著各種各樣的事情。乘公共汽車時你沒有地方坐。像火車站這樣的地方到處都是人。維護公共廁所等場所變得更加困難。這意味著缺乏衛生設施，它繼續在惡化。
5.我們的教育系統崩潰了。預留。死記硬背。教你如何進入教練班，教你如何進入~~~。從第7個標準開始，對學生施加壓力，要求他們為iit學習，不強調創造性。我還需要多說嗎？
6.婦女安全。我不想生活在這樣一個國家，如果晚上10點以後我發現自己在一個空的停車位或是一個幾乎空的地鐵列車上，我就會一直害怕被強姦。我不想生活在這樣一個國家，如果有一天我不得不很晚才離開辦公室，我必須有一位男性朋友陪伴。我不想生活在一個晚上不能在火車上安睡的國家，因為我的車廂裡有個單身漢。我不想生活在一個我沒有穿我想要的衣服的自由的國家，因為我可能會引起注意。我只是不想生活在這種持續的恐懼中。
有很多原因，但這些都是讓我完全不喜歡的原因。最重要的是，離開印度最好的原因是它減少了這個國家的人口壓力，這是當前的需要。人口較少的國家通常比人口稠密的國家表現更好。
AnonymousFor me its a very simple thing… All people over here have talked about the various pros and cons of the system being screwed up to air pollution and so on.. What I wanted, was to prove to myself that I could get a job abroad…..This is my story…It started in 2008 when I moved to the US to pursue MS in Finance. I had done 4 years of Engineering over here in Electronics and Telecommunications, was completely disillusioned by it and then decided that doing another degree that was not related to engineering would help me figure out what I wanted…So I spoke to a friend, what his plan was after engineering and he said he would be doing Masters in Quantitative Finance….. I was hooked, decided then and there that this is what I want to do too and started the whole process…..I was supposed to fly in August, 2007 but had to delay my joining by 6 months due to a medical emergency. So I land in February, 2008 to start my MS in Finance course, within a month Bear Stearns collapsed and the whole world was plunged into Depression, similar to the last big one that happened in 1929…. I was still in my happy little bubble that this will eventually be over and the jobs will be back… In fact I was a bit overconfident in my ability to get a job…I graduated in end of 2009 without any offer and was seriously contemplating what to do as nothing seemed to be working out, after 6 months I joined a small firm which allowed me to stay stateside however it was an unpaid internship. In the meanwhile a few of my friends had already started working in full time roles…Thus passed 2010 too with no significant progress made on the job front. Finally in 2011 I left the US as my Visa got over and came back to India…I was mortified about the fact that I had let my parents and myself down…. I was beating myself up internally as to how could I screw up in such a big way….This led me into a vicious circle where everytime I went for a job interview in India and didnt clear it, I was knocked down a peg…. Finally in 2012, I managed to land a job in an international bank in Mumbai…..Things were going pretty good however there was always this feeling in my head, that if my other friends managed to get a job and I didnt, was I never good enough? That kind of self doubt is very harmful…So after working there for a couple of years, I started looking at opportunities abroad….Now I had some experience in an MNC and was working with people in London so I thought to leverage those things and work on improving my knowledge, communication and networking skills.I started seeking out headhunters, talking to people and applying for roles which were an extension of what I was doing but located abroad… I had one interview for London in 2014, however I screwed that up a bit so was back to square one..Then in 2015 I got the opportunity to go to London to visit my sister and there I met one of the headhunters. They said that they liked my profile and would see if something can be worked out…This was in September, 2015…..I had my first interview in December and the next one in January, 2016 and finally was accepted and will be flying to London soon to start my new job…Long story short… I wanted to prove to myself more than anyone else that I was good enough…. Thank you for reading…
對我來說，這是一件很簡單的事情……這裡的所有人都在談論這個社會由於空氣汙染而陷入困境的各種利弊等等。..我想要的是向自己證明我能在國外找到一份工作。..這是我的故事...它始於2008年，那時我搬到了美國，攻讀金融學碩士。我在這裡做了四年的電子和電信工程，對它完全失望，然後決定做另一個與工程無關的學位，它將幫助我弄清楚我想要什麼。於是我和一個朋友談了談，他在工程之後的計劃是什麼，他說他將在數量金融學上取得碩士學位。我被迷上了，於是決定這也是我想做的，並開始了整個過程……..
我本打算在2007年8月起飛，但由於醫療緊急情況，不得不推遲了6個月。因此，我在2008年2月開始攻讀金融學碩士學位，不到一個月，貝爾斯登就倒閉了，整個世界陷入了蕭條，就像1929年發生的上一次大衰退一樣……我還沉浸在我的快樂的小泡泡裡...事實上，我有點過於自信我的能力，能找到一份工作...
我在2009年底沒有任何工作機會就畢業了，我在認真考慮該做些什麼，因為似乎沒有任何工作，在我加入一家小公司6個月後，我可以留在國內，但這是一個無薪實習。與此同時，我的幾個朋友已經開始全職工作……
因此，2010年過去了，在工作方面也沒有取得重大進展。2011年，我終於離開了美國，簽證過期了，回到了印度……我為自己和父母的失望感到羞愧……我內心在自責，我怎麼能把事情搞得這麼糟……這使我陷入了一個惡性循環，每次我去印度參加工作面試，還沒有弄清楚狀況時，我就被打倒在地。終於在2012年，我在孟買的一家國際銀行找到了一份工作。事情進展得很順利，但我腦子裡總有一種感覺，如果我的其他朋友設法找到了一份工作，而我卻沒有，那我就永遠不夠好嗎？那種自我懷疑是非常有害的...
在那裡工作了幾年後，我開始尋找國外的機會。現在我有了一些MNC的經驗，並且和倫敦的人一起工作，所以我想利用這些東西，努力提高我的知識，交流和交際能力。我開始尋找獵頭，與人交談，並申請職位，這是我正在做的事情的延伸，但位於國外……我在2014年有一次到倫敦工作的機會，但我搞砸了，所以又回到原點。
然後在2015年，我有機會去倫敦看望我的妹妹，在那裡我遇到了一個獵頭。他們說他們喜歡我的個人資料，想看看能不能找到解決的辦法。我在2015年12月和2016年1月分別進行了第一次和第二次的面試，最終被接受了，並很快飛往倫敦開始我的新工作。長話短說……我比任何人都想證明自己足夠好……謝謝你的閱讀。
There are plenty of other reasons as well but nothing trumps the above. Every other reason, I feel like I have some control over, but not this. I saw the other typical patriotic answers "stop complaining, it is up to us to change things". No, it is not up to me to solve all of the world's problems. I would like to live my life without having to worry to death about the safety of my family, especially my wife and daughter. It is not my calling in life to solve India's issues and don't judge me for it.Other things I'd like to have in life (very basic, IMO) that I'm pretty certain I will not get in India:1) If I happen to be in an accident, I would like to know that someone (preferably an ambulance with proper medical personnel) will take me to the hospital and that vehicles on the road will make way for the ambulance.2) I would like to be healthy. When I was in India, I used to be down with fever twice a month on average, including asthma related issues. I've been here in the US for 5 years now and I haven't had either issue... not once!3) I would like to do research in the cognitive sciences, which is what I'm trained to do. I spent a good decade of my life preparing for this career. I do not want to live in a country that values nothing but engineering and medicine.4) See Human Development Reports. India is at 135. Even Palestine and Iraq seem to be doing better and that is just appalling!5) People like the first "commenter" on this post who feel the need to go around poking their nose into everybody else's business (including how they think other people ought to raise their kids and where they ought to raise them and who provide unsolicited opinions on a million other personal matters) constitutes another major pain in the ass when living in India.You get the idea, so I'll stop here with the list. I'm not saying other countries are perfect. However India has too many problems that will not get solved in the near future no matter how hard one tries. One only needs to look at the journey Kejriwal has taken. People laugh at him for even trying. The people of India will continue voting for the two most crooked parties and will continue being their victims in cycles of 5-10 years. So I'm sorry for not staying but do not judge me for it. If you are comfortable with spending half your professional life fighting red tape, corruption and bureaucracy, then do so by all means. I would like to put that time to better use and if another country offers me that opportunity, I'll take it.
生活中我還想做的其他在我看來是非常基本的事情，我很確定我不想呆在印度:1、如果我出了車禍，我希望有人，最好是有適當醫療人員的救護車，帶我去醫院，路上的車輛會給救護車讓路。2、我想保持健康。我在印度的時候，平均每個月有兩次發燒，其間有哮喘等問題。我在美國已經呆了5年了，但我沒有出現任何問題……這不是偶然!3、我想做認知科學方面的研究，這是我所學的專業。我花了十年的時間來為這個職業做準備，我不想生活在一個只重視工程和醫學研究的國家。4、參考人類發展報告。印度在135位。甚至連巴勒斯坦和伊拉克似乎都比它做得好，這簡直令人震驚!5、像這個帖子上的第一個“評論者”這樣的人，他們覺得有必要到處打聽別人的事（包括他們如何認為別人應該撫養他們的孩子，他們應該在哪裡撫養他們，以及他們對別人的意見在印度生活時，還有另外一個麻煩。
現在你明白了吧，我就列舉至此。我不是說其他國家是完美的。但是，印度有太多的問題，無論如何努力，在不久的將來都無法解決。只要看看凱傑裡瓦爾的旅程就知道了，人們甚至嘲笑他的嘗試。印度人民將繼續為兩個最不公正的政黨投票，並將在5-10年的時間裡繼續成為他們的受害者。所以我很抱歉不願意留下來，但不要因此而對我評頭論足。如果你願意用你職業生涯的一半時間與繁文縟節、腐敗和官僚主義作鬥爭，那麼就這樣做吧。我不想浪費自己的生命，如果有別的國家給我這個機會，我就會接受。
Vibha KagziCollege is one of your greatest adventures, and as many of you know and have experienced, it is a journey that changes you forever. You will never be the same and will never see things the same way again. Here are 8 things you will only understand if you studied abroad:1. I can do anything! For many of you, the journey to a foreign country to study is the first time you are living independently and away from the comfort of family and friends. The experience provides an opportunity for you to discover yourself while gaining an understanding of a different culture. Being in a new place can be overwhelming at times, and it tests one’s ability to adapt to diverse situations while being able to problem solve. These experiences can serve as a catalyst for increased maturity. It provides the appropriate frxwork for you to believe you can tackle any issues and conquer any obstacles thrown at you throughout life.2. My Professor – My Friend. Chances are that prior to your study abroad experience, your relationship and interactions with your professors were brief and impersonal. However colleges abroad encourage student-faculty interaction and these relationships can play a pivotal role not only during your college years but even beyond. Your professors can become your mentors, investors, future recommenders and much more!3. There is no such thing as a silly question. Class participation is an important element of the learning process. Colleges abroad encourage students to speak up in class, express their ideas and even challenge statements or findings. Some classes / programs even allocate a grade to class participation. Teachers create a climate in which you are comfortable to ask questions and they take your comments seriously. This experience continues with you even after you leave college and allows you to challenge, question and ask for help whenever required.4. The world is flat. Global schools become hubs for global talent – be it students or professors. Professors, regardless of area of study, expose you to innovation, models, case studies and problem statements from across the planet. As the world becomes increasingly flat, you are taught to be aware of the progress and issues facing industry and strategize on the most effective course of action. After you leave college, the exposure received allows you to seamlessly work cross-border with minimal disruptions.5. Exams aren’t everything. Extracurricular activities form a vital part of your college experience. During your time on campus you engage in debate, clubs, competitions, talks and activities which equal in learning, if not more, to what you gain inside the classroom. After graduation, these habits continue where you involve yourself in your community, find time and pursue activities in addition to your home and work commitments.6. I love my family. Distance truly does make the heart grow fonder. Living thousands of miles away and seeing so much makes you appreciate where you come from and what your family has done. Not only during your time at college, but even beyond, there is a newfound gratefulness for all the love and support your parents, siblings and extended family have provided.7. I know someone everywhere. At college you meet people from across the globe and have friends all over the world. Who needs search engines – be it a business trip or a holiday – it’s great to be able to tap into your extensive network and ask about the local do’s and don’ts!8. There will be some reverse culture shock. As surprising as it may sound to those around you, coming back home after studying abroad can take some time and adjustment. You have been transformed intellectually and personally after your time away and have new habits, ideas and beliefs, sometimes without even realizing it! Friends and family may find this difficult to comprehend, and initially you may also find it hard to adjust. However, like you immersed yourself in a foreign country, you will make your experience part of who you are and find your optimal balance to bring the best of both worlds together.College is about self-discovery, exploring and accepting as many different ideas as possible, and pushing yourself outside your comfort zone. These experiences are hard to define and perhaps only a fellow student may understand the true depth of your endeavors.
大學是你最偉大的冒險之一，正如你們許多人所知道和經歷過的，它是一個永遠改變你的旅程。你將不再是原來的你，你將永遠不會再看到同樣的事情。這裡有8件事你只有在國外學習才能明白：
1.我可以做任何事！對你們中的許多人來說，去外國學習是你們第一次獨立生活，遠離家人和朋友的安慰。這種經歷為你提供了一個機會，讓你在瞭解不同文化的同時發現自己。身處一個新的地方，有時是無法承受的，它會考驗一個人在解決問題的同時適應不同環境的能力。這些經驗可以作為提高成熟度的催化劑。它為你提供了一個合適的框架，讓你相信你可以解決任何問題，克服生活中的任何障礙。
2.我的教授我的朋友在你出國學習之前，你與教授的關係和交流很可能是短暫的，不帶個人色彩的。然而，國外的大學鼓勵學生和教師之間的互動，這些關係不僅在你的大學時代，甚至在以後都能起到關鍵作用。你的教授可以成為你的導師、投資者、未來的推薦人等等！
3.世上沒有愚蠢的問題。課堂參與是學習過程中的一個重要因素。國外的大學鼓勵學生在課堂上大聲說話，表達自己的想法，甚至挑戰言論或研究結果。有些類/程序甚至將等級分配給類參與。老師們創造了一種氛圍，在這種氛圍中，你可以輕鬆地提問，他們也會認真對待你的評論。即使你離開大學，這種經歷也會伴隨著你，並且允許你在需要的時候挑戰、詢問和尋求幫助。
4.世界是平的。全球學校成為全球人才的中心，不管是學生還是教授。教授們，無論研究領域如何，都會讓你接觸到來自世界各地的創新、模型、案例研究和問題陳述。隨著世界變得越來越平坦，你被教導要意識到產業的進步和麵臨的問題，並制定最有效的行動方案。在你離開大學後，接受的曝光可以讓你無縫地跨越國界工作，並儘量減少干擾。
5.考試不是一切。課外活動是你大學生活的重要組成部分。在你在校園的時間裡，你參與辯論、俱樂部、競賽、談話和活動，這些活動在學習（如果不是更多的話）你在課堂上獲得了什麼。畢業後，這些習慣會一直延續到你融入你的社區，在你的家庭和工作承諾之外，尋找時間和進行活動。
6.我愛我的家人。距離確實讓心變得更可愛。生活在千里之外，看到如此多的東西，這讓你對自己的出身和家庭所做的一切充滿感激。不僅在你上大學的時候，甚至在以後，對於你的父母、兄弟姐妹和大家庭給予你的愛和支持，你都有了新的感激之情。
7.我到處都認識一個人。在大學裡，你會遇到來自世界各地的人，並且在世界各地都有朋友。誰需要搜索引擎——不管是商務旅行還是度假——能利用你廣泛的網絡，瞭解當地的做法和不做法，真是太好了！
8.會有一些反向文化衝擊。對你周圍的人來說，這聽起來很令人驚訝，但出國學習後回家可能需要一些時間和適應。在你離開之後，你已經在智力和個人方面發生了變化，並且有了新的習慣、想法和信仰，有時甚至沒有意識到這一點！朋友和家人可能會發現這很難理解，而且一開始你也會發現很難適應。然而，就像你沉浸於異國他鄉一樣，你將使你的經歷成為你的一部分，並找到最佳的平衡，將兩個世界的最佳狀態結合在一起。大學是關於自我發現，探索和接受盡可能多的不同的想法，並把你自己推出你的舒適區。這些經歷很難定義，也許只有同學才能理解你努力的真正深度。
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