How to
beat an addiction
to cell phones?
如何戒除手机瘾?
I want to say
how really delighted I am
that you're having a baby.
我想说你怀孕了
我有多高兴。
I love playing basketball.
我喜欢打篮球。
I have played many tournaments
and traveled a lot as well.
我打了不少比赛，
也去了不少地方。
It taught me interpersonal skills.
篮球教会人际交往能力
And, surely, I learned
how to remain focused.
当然，让我学会了
如何保持专注。
I didn't realize
how much this meant to you.
我不知道这个
对你的意义有这么大。
However you deny it,
you're a gigolo.
尽管你不承认，
你是吃软饭的。
How would you
come up with that?
你是怎么想到这个的？
How was your date?
你的约会怎么样?
You're not your job.
You're not how much money
you have in the bank.
You're not the car you drive.
You're not the contents of your wallet.
工作不能代表你，
银行存款也不能代表你，
你开的车也不能代表你。
你的钱包也不能代表你。
You had to listen to
what they are saying,
not how they are saying it.
You get picked on all the time.
你整天被人欺负。
How do you deal with it?
你都是怎么处理的？
I usually start by telling myself
how much smarter I am than
the person who's picking on me.
我想告诉自己，
我比欺负的那个人聪明多。
What struck me
about the firm
is how genuinely friendly
and informal it is.
该公司的真诚、
友好和不拘小节
深深打动了我。
We don't always control
what happens to us.
But we always control
how we interpret
what happens to us,
as well as how we
respond.
We are going to freak out
if you don't show up!
你再不出现我们就要发飙了！
There's a crack in everything.
That's how the light gets in.
万物皆有裂痕，
那是光照进的地方。
The economy
shows no signs of faltering.
经济没有衰退的迹象。
Suffering is always inevitable,
that no matter what you do,
life is comprised of
failures, loss,
regrets, and even death.
After all,
the only way to overcome pain
is to first learn how to bear it.
Our team won the game;
however,
it was touch and go for a while.
尽管我队胜了这场比赛，
但一度确实很危险。
Not only can we do better；
我们不仅可以做得更好
we have to do better,
我们必须做得更好，
and now we have a path forward
as to how we will do better.
现在我们有了一条前进的道路，
我们将如何做得更好。
No matter how,
pay off your debts first.
无论如何，
你都要先把债还清了。
Knowledge is like underwear.
It is useful to have it,
but not necessary
to show it off.
知识就像内裤。
有用，
但绝无必要炫耀。
It took me a while
to figure out
how to do this problem.
我花了好一会儿
才想出如何解决这个问题。
It is important for parents
to redirect children's inaccurate
or negative beliefs about themselves
and to teach them
how to think in positive ways.
孩子们对自己的看法不准确
或者是负面的话，
父母要做的重要工作是
校正这些错误并教会他们
如何以积极的方式思考这些问题。
It depends on
how much you
got them riled up.
要看你是否激怒了他们。
I should know
how to treat fever,
sore throat,
stomachache,
headache,
cough, etc.
嗓子疼，胃疼，
头疼，咳嗽等等。
How to tame
your wandering mind?
如何训练大脑的专注力？
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