When we’re young, we’re cautioned. Be smart. Be safe. Be careful. We’re told not to trust people so easily. We’re told to be wary of strangers.
But I'm here to tell you,love is always worth the try.
See, our purpose on this earth is to love and be loved, to let people in, to engage in conversations and commitments and entanglements and love, most importantly, love. We’re supposed to let our hearts beat wildly. We’re supposed to mold ourselves into other people’s lives, and walk alongside them in their life journey. We’re supposed to have feelings and embrace them in all their craziness.
We’re supposed to fall into each other.
And inevitably, we’re supposed to experience the ups and downs of the rollercoaster of love.
But we’re cautioned so much to be careful and hesitant, to be guarded and fearful. Don’t be. Not anymore. Don’t be afraid of the negative things love can potentially bring you. Choose to only see the positive. Love. Not blindly, but boldly. Fall into people and trust their goodness. Let people in and watch how your soul blossoms 。
Become the person who is open and soft, not harsh and hidden. And watch how the world opens to you in return.
Don’t be afraid to care about people, to have feelings, to express emotion, to speak what’s on your heart, or to let people know what they mean to you.
Don’t be afraid to let go of your fears and step forward into relationships and commitments, even those that don’t promise forever, because as humans, forever is a lot to promise.
Don’t be afraid to allow love to strengthen your heart, over and over, before and during and even after pain.
Don’t be afraid to defy all those rules you were taught when you were younger—how to be, to feel, to act. This is your life and your heart. You can decide who and how and in what way to let someone in.
Don’t be afraid to feel.Don’t be afraid to let your heart be filled.
Learn to love ;Learn to trust,your heart skips a beat; your breathing becomes faster;That is the feeling of love.
译文如下：
当我们年轻的时候面临爱情，会被警告，要聪明，要保证自己安全，要小心处理。不要轻易相信人，要对陌生人提高警惕性。但是我想说，爱情值得尝试。
我们来到人世间的目的，就是爱和被爱，打开自己的心门，才能让别人可以走进来，与他们交往、许诺、纠缠和产生爱，最重要的是爱。当心脏疯狂的跳动，把自己融入渗透进对方的生活里，在他的生命旅程中，与他肩并肩，一起前行。这就是真正爱情，在爱里应该有感觉，疯狂中拥抱着彼此。
我们让彼此深陷其中。
不可避免的，我们可能会体验爱情如过山车般的起伏。
我们被警示之后会变得小心犹豫，变得谨小慎微。不要，也别再如此想。不要害怕爱情可能给你带来的负面影响。选择看阳光积极的一面。爱，不是盲目的，而是大胆的。爱上某人，就选择相信他的善良。打开心门，看灵魂如何绽放。
做一个开朗、温柔、不苛刻、不躲藏的人，看这个世界如何温柔以待我们。
不要害怕主动关心人，产生感情，表达情感，说出你心里所想，让对方知道他们在你心里意味着什么。
不要害怕放开你的恐惧，走进新的感情，许下新的承诺，即使他们不承诺你永远，因为作为普通人，永远是一个很大的承诺。
不要害怕反复遭受痛苦，哪怕遭受伤痛之前，遭受中，遭受以后，也让爱走进来，你的心会变得更加坚强，
当你年轻的时候，不要害怕违抗你所学的所有规则，对于如何去做，去感受，去行动。你的人生，你的心，由你你做主。你可以决定让谁，如何做，以什么方式让某人进来。
不要害怕去感受，不要害怕你的心被填满。
学会去爱，学会信任，感受心跳，呼吸加速，那就是爱的感觉。
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