What are the best ways to make yourself more attractive?
有什麼最好的方法能使自己更有魅力？
獲得5.8k好評的回答@Josh Fechter：
1. Become a happy-go-lucky person.
1.做一個樂天派。
I went to a local San Francisco bar to hang out with one of my best friends. My friend was talking to this girl with a body shaped like an hourglass and long black hair peacocked with a purple stripe.
我和一個最好的朋友相約去舊金山當地的一家酒吧。我朋友和一個女孩聊天，她身姿曼妙，長長的黑髮焗著扎眼的紫色條紋。
She was sitting next to a guy who wore baggy clothes and didn’t bother to comb his hair.
她身邊坐著一個男孩，穿著寬鬆的衣服，頭髮都懶得梳。
As a good friend, I decided to keep this guy’s attention so my best friend could mingle undisturbed with the cute girl. I assumed from the tone of his voice and mannerisms that he was gay. I barely have to put in energy to wingman this scenario. Within a couple of minutes, I noticed I was wrong.
作為好朋友，我決定要吸引這個男孩的注意力，以便讓我的好朋友能和那個可愛的女孩好好聊聊不被打擾。我從那個男孩說話的語氣和言談舉止猜測他是個同性戀，我毫不費力就能搞定。但幾分鐘以後我發現我錯了。
2. This guy had charmed me.
2.這個男孩把我吸引住了。
He had the widest smile and a happy-go-lucky attitude. He kept complimenting me by telling me great things about my energy and attitude. “Josh, there’s something about you - such positive energy. You’re a great guy to hang out with.” I thanked him over and again. Coming out of my daze, I noticed his hand was on the girl’s leg. I quickly realized two things:
他有最燦爛的微笑，很樂觀的態度。他一直稱讚我的精力和態度。“Josh，你身上有某種東西——一種正能量，和你在一起真開心。”我一再地感謝他。我現在看明白了，他的手放在那個女孩腿上，我很快弄明白了兩件事：
1)He’s not gay
1)他不是同性戀
2)He knows exactly what he’s doing
2）他很清楚自己在做什麼
As we talked further, I asked him, “How do you charm people so well?” He responded, “I’m a professional.” Then he whispered in my ear, “I just picked this girl up at a strip club.” He proceeded to explain how he regularly goes out and meets many women and makes countless new friends.
隨著我們聊得越來越多，我問他：“你怎麼這麼有魅力？”他回答說：“我可是專業的。”然後在我耳邊小聲說：“我剛把這個女孩從脫衣舞俱樂部接出來。”他繼續向我解釋他平時怎麼出去逛，見很多女孩，然後怎麼交到無數新朋友的。
3. I was only partially convinced of his backstory until this happened…
我對他幕後的故事半信半疑，直到……
We were thinking of jumping over to another bar, so we went outside to order an Uber. The girl took off to the bathroom. This wide-smiled guy looked at my best friend and me, and then glanced at a group of girls next to us. Without hesitation, he walked over and began talking to them.
我們想要換一家酒吧，就出去叫了Uber（打車軟件），那個女孩去了洗手間。這個笑容燦爛的男孩看看我最好的朋友和我，然後又看了看我們身邊的一群女孩，毫不猶豫地走過去開始跟她們聊天。
I observed. He used his happy-go-lucky attitude to charm them. In less than a minute, he had already kissed one of them. I was stunned. This guy gets it. He didn’t pull any fancy lines. He just acted like the world was on his side. And by doing so, it was.
我一直觀察他。他用他那樂天派的態度吸引她們，不到一分鐘，已經吻到其中一個女孩了。我目瞪口呆，這個男人做到了。他沒有任何花式撩法，僅僅表現得好像全世界都屬於他一樣。他這樣做了，然後全世界就真的屬於他了。
I looked at my best friend. We laughed. It’s never about how you dress or comb your hair.
我看看我朋友，我們都笑了。這和你的穿著和頭型無關。
Your attitude determines your attractiveness.
你的態度決定了你的魅力。
有沒有一個方法能夠讓大家輕鬆破解英語句式問題呢？有的，比如能動英語的“句式魔方”課程。
“句式魔方”幫助孩子突破英語學習中的第二難關——單詞詞義、短語積累與生成、句子生成轉換能力。
通過學習“句式魔方”，孩子最終能形成語感，內化成語言本能，熟練生成各種句子。
沒有學習“句式魔方”的孩子，要麼只能機械的用各種單詞按照漢語習慣，生成各種中式英語句子，要麼就是不得不花費大量的精力背誦各種語法規則，亦步亦趨的按照這些規則生成句子，很可能被各種語法細碎知識點搞得頭昏腦漲而喪失學習興趣。而學習了“句式魔方”的孩子，通過“句式魔方”的短語矩陣訓練，不但能熟練的生成各種短語，並在訓練的過程中，增加了語感，還能再具體的語境中自然習得單詞含義，同時“句式魔方”通過其核心句的生成以及其它五種基本句式推導轉換的練習，讓孩子熟練掌握各種句式和常用時態的變化，最終獲得句子生成能力。
學完“句式魔方”，一方面有了具體語境後，孩子就知道了單詞意義，再結合已習得的“表音密碼”基礎，孩子就可將單詞的“音”、“形”、“意”對應起來，徹底解決單詞問題；另一方面，孩子可掌握短語與句子的生成機制，以及應對各種時態與句式的轉換問題，來輕鬆自主的生成各種句子，掌握應用！
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