What are some unwritten social rules everyone should know?
有什麼不成文的社會規則是每個人都該知道的？
獲得13k好評的回答@Jake Williams：
1.You get invited to a party, you bring booze, enough for yourself as minimum, preferably enough for yourself plus extra.
1.應邀參加聚會你要帶酒的話，至少要帶夠自己的份，最好也能夠別人喝。
2.‘How are you?’ Should, in most cases, be answered in three words or fewer.
2.“你好嗎？”大多數情況下回答這個問題不要超過三個字。
3.If someone asks “would anyone like the last slice?” that means they want it, and therefore you should refuse.
3.如果有人問“誰想要最後一塊？”意思就是他們自己想要，所以你不能要。
4.Owner of the car chooses the music and/or has the right to pick who chooses the music. Owner of the house chooses what setting the thermostat is set at. Etc etc.
4.車主選擇音樂並且/或者由車主來決定誰選音樂，房主決定恆溫器要放哪兒，等等。
5.“You should come around some time” is not necessarily an invitation.
5.“你有時間過來轉轉”不一定是邀請。
6.When entering someone else's home, ask if they require you to remove your shoes.
6.去別人家時要問問是否需要脫鞋。
7.Avoid presuming. If someone offers you ‘a drink’, it's not often ‘yeah, I'll have a glass of red’ is an acceptable answer.
7.不要自以為是。如果有人要給你拿飲料，通常最好不要回答“好的，給我來杯紅茶。”
8.If someone is telling a story, and it seems everyone is ignoring them, make eye contact and show extra interest.
8.如果有人在講故事，而且好像沒人在意，你可以給個眼神，表示你很感興趣。
9.If you invite someone to dinner, expressly state the arrangement of paying or be willing to pick up the cheque.
9.如果你請別人吃飯，要說清楚自己會結賬或願意買單。
10.If a friend offers you ‘a bite’ of their burger it is not an opportunity to unhinge your jaw. Similarly ‘have one’, when referring to crisps, chips, sweets, is not an opportunity to have a handful.
10.如果朋友要分你 “一口”漢堡，這時不要張嘴就吃。同樣，朋友分給你薯片、薯條、糖，讓你吃 “一塊”時，你也不要抓一把。
11.Avoid ‘nevermind’ing or ‘forget about it’ing people. If you don't want to say something, don't start saying it.
11.遠離說“無所謂”或“別放在心上”的人，如果你沒什麼想說的，也不要說這些話。
12.Just because someone refers to their friend, partner, or family member by a certain nickname, adjective, or term does not mean you're allowed to.
12.某人用特定的暱稱、形容詞或某個詞來稱呼朋友、搭檔或家裡人並不意味著你也可以這樣叫。
13.Strangers that are wearing headphones, reading a book, or eating are not to be spoken to unless there is an active shooter, fire, or bomb threat, and even then you should apologise before warning them.
13.不要和帶耳機、讀書或吃東西的陌生人說話，除非有槍擊案、火災或炸彈威脅，即使有這些情況你在警告他們之前也要先道歉。
14.If someone says ‘can I ask you something?’, ‘you should sit down’, or ‘can we talk?’, prepare for it to be serious.
14.如果有人說“我能問你點事嗎？”“你應該坐下來”或“我們能談談嗎？”你要做好心理準備，可能是很嚴肅的事。
獲得16.7k好評的回答@Sid Kemp：
When invited out to dinner, and the host is paying, watch for what he or she orders. Order something the same price, or lower. The host’s chosen price is the indicator of what he or she can comfortably pay for everyone else.
應邀出去吃飯時，如果是主人買單，你要注意他/她點了什麼，你要點相同價位或價位更低的食物。主人選擇的價格暗示了他/她想為別人花多少錢。
有沒有一個方法能夠讓大家輕鬆破解英語句式問題呢？有的，比如能動英語的“句式魔方”課程。
“句式魔方”幫助孩子突破英語學習中的第二難關——單詞詞義、短語積累與生成、句子生成轉換能力。
通過學習“句式魔方”，孩子最終能形成語感，內化成語言本能，熟練生成各種句子。
沒有學習“句式魔方”的孩子，要麼只能機械的用各種單詞按照漢語習慣，生成各種中式英語句子，要麼就是不得不花費大量的精力背誦各種語法規則，亦步亦趨的按照這些規則生成句子，很可能被各種語法細碎知識點搞得頭昏腦漲而喪失學習興趣。而學習了“句式魔方”的孩子，通過“句式魔方”的短語矩陣訓練，不但能熟練的生成各種短語，並在訓練的過程中，增加了語感，還能再具體的語境中自然習得單詞含義，同時“句式魔方”通過其核心句的生成以及
其它五種基本句式推導轉換的練習，讓孩子熟練掌握各種句式和常用時態的變化，最終獲得句子生成能力。學完“句式魔方”，一方面有了具體語境後，孩子就知道了單詞意義，再結合已習得的“表音密碼”基礎，孩子就可將單詞的“音”、“形”、“意”對應起來，徹底解決單詞問題；另一方面，孩子可掌握短語與句子的生成機制，以及應對各種時態與句式的轉換問題，來輕鬆自主的生成各種句子，掌握應用！
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