When we’re young, we’re cautioned. Be smart. Be safe. Be careful. We’re told not to trust people so easily. We’re told to be wary of strangers.
But I'm here to tell you,love is always worth the try.
See, our purpose on this earth is to love and be loved, to let people in, to engage in conversations and commitments and entanglements and love, most importantly, love. We’re supposed to let our hearts beat wildly. We’re supposed to mold ourselves into other people’s lives, and walk alongside them in their life journey. We’re supposed to have feelings and embrace them in all their craziness.
We’re supposed to fall into each other.
And inevitably, we’re supposed to experience the ups and downs of the rollercoaster of love.
But we’re cautioned so much to be careful and hesitant, to be guarded and fearful. Don’t be. Not anymore. Don’t be afraid of the negative things love can potentially bring you. Choose to only see the positive. Love. Not blindly, but boldly. Fall into people and trust their goodness. Let people in and watch how your soul blossoms 。
Become the person who is open and soft, not harsh and hidden. And watch how the world opens to you in return.
Don’t be afraid to care about people, to have feelings, to express emotion, to speak what’s on your heart, or to let people know what they mean to you.
Don’t be afraid to let go of your fears and step forward into relationships and commitments, even those that don’t promise forever, because as humans, forever is a lot to promise.
Don’t be afraid to allow love to strengthen your heart, over and over, before and during and even after pain.
Don’t be afraid to defy all those rules you were taught when you were younger—how to be, to feel, to act. This is your life and your heart. You can decide who and how and in what way to let someone in.
Don’t be afraid to feel.Don’t be afraid to let your heart be filled.
Learn to love ;Learn to trust,your heart skips a beat; your breathing becomes faster;That is the feeling of love.
譯文如下：
當我們年輕的時候面臨愛情，會被警告，要聰明，要保證自己安全，要小心處理。不要輕易相信人，要對陌生人提高警惕性。但是我想說，愛情值得嘗試。
我們來到人世間的目的，就是愛和被愛，打開自己的心門，才能讓別人可以走進來，與他們交往、許諾、糾纏和產生愛，最重要的是愛。當心髒瘋狂的跳動，把自己融入滲透進對方的生活裡，在他的生命旅程中，與他肩並肩，一起前行。這就是真正愛情，在愛裡應該有感覺，瘋狂中擁抱著彼此。
我們讓彼此深陷其中。
不可避免的，我們可能會體驗愛情如過山車般的起伏。
我們被警示之後會變得小心猶豫，變得謹小慎微。不要，也別再如此想。不要害怕愛情可能給你帶來的負面影響。選擇看陽光積極的一面。愛，不是盲目的，而是大膽的。愛上某人，就選擇相信他的善良。打開心門，看靈魂如何綻放。
做一個開朗、溫柔、不苛刻、不躲藏的人，看這個世界如何溫柔以待我們。
不要害怕主動關心人，產生感情，表達情感，說出你心裡所想，讓對方知道他們在你心裡意味著什麼。
不要害怕放開你的恐懼，走進新的感情，許下新的承諾，即使他們不承諾你永遠，因為作為普通人，永遠是一個很大的承諾。
不要害怕反覆遭受痛苦，哪怕遭受傷痛之前，遭受中，遭受以後，也讓愛走進來，你的心會變得更加堅強，
當你年輕的時候，不要害怕違抗你所學的所有規則，對於如何去做，去感受，去行動。你的人生，你的心，由你你做主。你可以決定讓誰，如何做，以什麼方式讓某人進來。
不要害怕去感受，不要害怕你的心被填滿。
學會去愛，學會信任，感受心跳，呼吸加速，那就是愛的感覺。
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