最好的年龄是，那一天你终于知道并且坚信自己有多好，不是虚张，不是浮夸，不是众人捧，是内心明澈地知道：是的，我就是这么好。
The best age is when you finally know and believe in how good you are. It's not exaggeration, it's not exaggeration, it's not popular, it's clear in your heart: Yes, I'm so good.
现在的人心其实相信的是情绪。人们都是跟着情绪走的，无所谓谁对谁错，只在于看哪个顺眼，听哪个顺耳。
Now the people actually believe in emotions. People follow their emotions. It doesn't matter who is right or who is wrong. It just depends on which one is pleasant to the eye and which one is pleasant to the ear.
“你说喜欢一个人是什么感觉？”
“乍见心欢，小别思恋，久处仍怦然。”
"How do you feel about liking someone?"
"At first glance, don't miss love, but still feel sad for a long time."
必须重新站起来，告诉自己，继续走吧，路途尚未结束——即使重新捡起的东西已被别人踩得粉碎。包括你蹲下去的时候，散落一地的尊严。
You have to stand up again and tell yourself, keep going, the journey is not over yet - even if the things you pick up have been trampled to pieces by others. Including when you squat down, scattered dignity.
现代人太着急了，看一眼照片，听一段语音，道两天晚安，就喜欢上了，不过讨厌得也很快，喜欢了两三年，最后因为一个眼神，一句话，不到一秒就决定放弃了，多情又冷酷也挺好的，速战速决总是好过暧昧不清。就只怕杀伐决断的遇到了藕断丝连的，情意绵绵的遇上了见异思迁。这世上，赢的多半还是薄情人。
Modern people are too anxious, look at photos, listen to a voice, say goodnight for two days, they like it, but hate it very quickly, like two or three years, finally because of a look, a word, less than a second, decided to give up, affectionate and cold, quick decision is always better than ambiguous. Just afraid that the decisive felling met with broken lotus roots, affectionate encounter strange ideas. In this world, the winner is mostly a thin lover.
世界上，不是所有的人都可以掏心掏肺互诉衷肠，路过的都是景，擦肩的都是客！
In the world, not all of us can share our hearts and minds with each other. All of us pass by are scenery and all of us are guests.
愿姑娘日后善其生，遇贵人，与君欢喜诚，暖色度余生。
May the girl live happily in the future, encounter noble people, be happy and sincere with you, and spend the rest of her life warmly.
什么叫多余?夏天的棉袄，冬天的凉席，还有我心死之后，你的挽回。
What is redundancy? The cotton jacket in summer, the mat in winter, and your recovery after my death.
有些东西，并不是越浓越好，要恰到好处。深深的话我们浅浅地说，长长的路我们慢慢地走。 Some things, not the thicker the better, to be just right. Deep words, we say shallowly, the long road we take slowly.
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