有沒有吸引力並不取決於你賺多少錢，也不取決於你的老爸是誰。而且，這完全不取決於你是否長得像湯姆·克魯斯或者他的妻子凱蒂·赫爾姆斯。這僅僅取決於一些簡單的細節，像湯姆·克魯斯一樣的人也不一定能辦到。而來自任何種族，任何國家，任何背景的人，都能成為世界上最有吸引力的人。
yǒu méi yǒu xī yǐn lì bìng bú qǔ jué yú nǐ zuàn duō shǎo qián ，yě bú qǔ jué yú nǐ de lǎo bà shì shuí 。ér qiě ，zhè wán quán bú qǔ jué yú nǐ shì fǒu zhǎng dé xiàng tāng mǔ ·kè lǔ sī huò zhě tā de qī zǐ kǎi dì ·hè ěr mǔ sī 。zhè jǐn jǐn qǔ jué yú yī xiē jiǎn dān de xì jiē ，xiàng tāng mǔ ·kè lǔ sī yī yàng de rén yě bú yī dìng néng bàn dào 。ér lái zì rèn hé zhǒng zú ，rèn hé guó jiā ，rèn hé bèi jǐng de rén ，dōu néng chéng wéi shì jiè shàng zuì yǒu xī yǐn lì de rén 。
It's not about howmuch money you make, and it's not about who your daddy is. And no, it'sdefinitely not about whether you look like Tom Cruise or his wife KatieHolmes … What it is about is these simple things, things that maybeeven a person like Tom Cruise does not have.
這不是關於你賺多少錢，也不是關於你爸爸是誰。不，這絕對不是說你長得像湯姆·克魯斯還是他的妻子凱蒂·赫爾姆斯，而是這些簡單的東西，甚至像湯姆·克魯斯這樣的人都沒有的東西。
zhè bú shì guān yú nǐ zuàn duō shǎo qián ，yě bú shì guān yú nǐ bà bà shì shuí 。bú ，zhè jué duì bú shì shuō nǐ zhǎng dé xiàng tāng mǔ ·kè lǔ sī hái shì tā de qī zǐ kǎi dì ·hè ěr mǔ sī ，ér shì zhè xiē jiǎn dān de dōng xī ，shèn zhì xiàng tāng mǔ ·kè lǔ sī zhè yàng de rén dōu méi yǒu de dōng xī 。
And note, we are notnecessarily talking about sexual （male attract female） things here.We're talking about being attractive in general, whether it's on a jobinterview or just gaining the respect of your colleagues . . .
注意,我們notnecessarily談論性(男性吸引女性)的東西。我們談論的是總體上的吸引力，無論是在工作面試上還是僅僅獲得同事的尊重…
zhù yì ,wǒ men notnecessarilytán lùn xìng (nán xìng xī yǐn nǚ xìng )de dōng xī 。wǒ men tán lùn de shì zǒng tǐ shàng de xī yǐn lì ，wú lùn shì zài gōng zuò miàn shì shàng hái shì jǐn jǐn huò dé tóng shì de zūn zhòng …
Ask lots of questions
問很多問題
wèn hěn duō wèn tí
In other words, behumble. If you come across as a know-it-all （even if you really do knowit all!）, it really pushes people away. Rather, asking lots and lots ofquestions （even dumb ones） makes people feel like you care, you can betrusted, and you are… humble.
換句話說,behumble。如果你被認為是一個“百事通”(即使你真的knowit !),它使人們疏遠你。相反,問很多很多ofquestions(即使是愚蠢的)讓人覺得你關心,你可以betrusted,你……謙卑。
huàn jù huà shuō ,behumble。rú guǒ nǐ bèi rèn wéi shì yī gè “bǎi shì tōng ”(jí shǐ nǐ zhēn de knowit !),tā shǐ rén men shū yuǎn nǐ 。xiàng fǎn ,wèn hěn duō hěn duō ofquestions(jí shǐ shì yú chǔn de )ràng rén jiào dé nǐ guān xīn ,nǐ kě yǐ betrusted,nǐ ……qiān bēi 。
Great posture
偉大的姿勢
wěi dà de zī shì
Have you ever seen apotentially very attractive person, but they have terrible posture?It's all ruined, isn't it? Or perhaps you have seen someone who perhapscould be quite ugly but they have great posture and so suddenly theyare really attractive? It's true. Your posture says a lot about you -it says whether you have confidence, or simply if you really care.Talking physically, it is one of the most important physicalcharacteristics you need!
你有沒有見過一個非常有吸引力的人，但是他們的姿勢很糟糕?都毀了，不是嗎?或者，你可能見過一個人，他也許長得很醜，但是他的姿勢很好，所以他突然變得很有吸引力?這是真的。你的姿勢說明了很多關於你的事情——它表明你是否有信心，或者僅僅說明你是否真的在乎。就身體而言，這是你所需要的最重要的身體特徵之一。
nǐ yǒu méi yǒu jiàn guò yī gè fēi cháng yǒu xī yǐn lì de rén ，dàn shì tā men de zī shì hěn zāo gāo ?dōu huǐ le ，bú shì ma ?huò zhě ，nǐ kě néng jiàn guò yī gè rén ，tā yě xǔ zhǎng dé hěn chǒu ，dàn shì tā de zī shì hěn hǎo ，suǒ yǐ tā tū rán biàn dé hěn yǒu xī yǐn lì ?zhè shì zhēn de 。nǐ de zī shì shuō míng le hěn duō guān yú nǐ de shì qíng ——tā biǎo míng nǐ shì fǒu yǒu xìn xīn ，huò zhě jǐn jǐn shuō míng nǐ shì fǒu zhēn de zài hū 。jiù shēn tǐ ér yán ，zhè shì nǐ suǒ xū yào de zuì zhòng yào de shēn tǐ tè zhēng zhī yī 。
Walk like you mean it
像你說的那樣走路
xiàng nǐ shuō de nà yàng zǒu lù
Walk with anattitude. Walk like you know where you're going, and do so with goodposture. Walk like you'll run over anyone who even attempts to hassleyou. If you walk like this, you'll be spotted from a mile away.
和anattitude行走。走得像你知道你要去的地方一樣，並且保持良好的姿勢。走起路來，就像你會撞見任何企圖騷擾你的人一樣。如果你這樣走路，你就會在一英里外被發現。
hé anattitudeháng zǒu 。zǒu dé xiàng nǐ zhī dào nǐ yào qù de dì fāng yī yàng ，bìng qiě bǎo chí liáng hǎo de zī shì 。zǒu qǐ lù lái ，jiù xiàng nǐ huì zhuàng jiàn rèn hé qǐ tú sāo rǎo nǐ de rén yī yàng 。rú guǒ nǐ zhè yàng zǒu lù ，nǐ jiù huì zài yī yīng lǐ wài bèi fā xiàn 。
Stay busy
保持忙碌
bǎo chí máng lù
Do you really knowthe power of this? We're told to stay busy to ward off depression andfeelings of anxiety. But did you know you should also stay busy to bereally attractive? It's true. Always have something to do. Have youever seen someone just sitting around, doing nothing? How unattractive.Always be busy with something, even if for some reason you have to makesomething up.
你真的知道它的力量嗎?我們被告知要保持忙碌，以避免沮喪和焦慮。但是你知道你也應該保持忙碌來吸引別人嗎?這是真的。總是有事情要做。你見過有人無所事事地坐在那裡嗎?沒有吸引力。總是忙於某事，即使出於某種原因你不得不做某事。
nǐ zhēn de zhī dào tā de lì liàng ma ?wǒ men bèi gào zhī yào bǎo chí máng lù ，yǐ bì miǎn jǔ sàng hé jiāo lǜ 。dàn shì nǐ zhī dào nǐ yě yīng gāi bǎo chí máng lù lái xī yǐn bié rén ma ?zhè shì zhēn de 。zǒng shì yǒu shì qíng yào zuò 。nǐ jiàn guò yǒu rén wú suǒ shì shì dì zuò zài nà lǐ ma ?méi yǒu xī yǐn lì 。zǒng shì máng yú mǒu shì ，jí shǐ chū yú mǒu zhǒng yuán yīn nǐ bú dé bú zuò mǒu shì 。
Show your pearly whites （or just smile）
顯示你的珍珠白(或只是微笑)
xiǎn shì nǐ de zhēn zhū bái (huò zhī shì wēi xiào )
Smile more, nomatter how ugly your teeth are. I'm not kidding about this one. It'snot all about the teeth. If you are smiling genuinely, you can draweveryone for 100 meters around to you.
多笑一點，不管你的牙齒有多醜。我不是在開玩笑。這並不全是關於牙齒。如果你真的在微笑，你可以把每個人都繞到你身邊100米。
duō xiào yī diǎn ，bú guǎn nǐ de yá chǐ yǒu duō chǒu 。wǒ bú shì zài kāi wán xiào 。zhè bìng bú quán shì guān yú yá chǐ 。rú guǒ nǐ zhēn de zài wēi xiào ，nǐ kě yǐ bǎ měi gè rén dōu rào dào nǐ shēn biān 100mǐ 。
Keep your lips smooth
讓你的嘴唇光滑
ràng nǐ de zuǐ chún guāng huá
Moisturize yourlips. It's hard to even look someone in the face if their lips arecracked and dry. And it's hard to believe that they really care aboutanything. That's just the way we humans think. So for cryin' out loudcarry around a tube of chap stick around with you … they're only likea buck a pop, and they'll last you a while even if you put it on asregularly as I am eluding to! And no, women, it's not necessarily aboutthe lipstick （although, yes, there is a time and place for it） … it'smore about the simple, natural beauty of supple lips. Caution! Don'tput so much on that it's just scary, however. But I didn't need to tellyou that, right?
滋潤yourlips。如果一個人的嘴唇乾裂，你甚至很難直視他的臉。很難相信他們真的關心任何事情。這就是我們人類的思維方式。所以，為了讓你哭出來，在你身邊帶一管男人…他們就像一塊錢一根汽水，即使你像我躲避的那樣定期地戴上它，它們也會讓你撐上一段時間!不,女人,也不是必然的口紅(雖然,是的,有一個時間和地點)…這'smore簡單,自然美景的柔軟的嘴唇。謹慎!不過，不要在上面放太多東西，那樣會很嚇人。但我沒必要告訴你，對吧?
zī rùn yourlips。rú guǒ yī gè rén de zuǐ chún gàn liè ，nǐ shèn zhì hěn nán zhí shì tā de liǎn 。hěn nán xiàng xìn tā men zhēn de guān xīn rèn hé shì qíng 。zhè jiù shì wǒ men rén lèi de sī wéi fāng shì 。suǒ yǐ ，wéi le ràng nǐ kū chū lái ，zài nǐ shēn biān dài yī guǎn nán rén …tā men jiù xiàng yī kuài qián yī gēn qì shuǐ ，jí shǐ nǐ xiàng wǒ duǒ bì de nà yàng dìng qī dì dài shàng tā ，tā men yě huì ràng nǐ chēng shàng yī duàn shí jiān !bú ,nǚ rén ,yě bú shì bì rán de kǒu hóng (suī rán ,shì de ,yǒu yī gè shí jiān hé dì diǎn )…zhè 'smorejiǎn dān ,zì rán měi jǐng de róu ruǎn de zuǐ chún 。jǐn shèn !bú guò ，bú yào zài shàng miàn fàng tài duō dōng xī ，nà yàng huì hěn xià rén 。dàn wǒ méi bì yào gào sù nǐ ，duì ba ?
Wear what fits
穿什麼合適
chuān shí me hé shì
Wear clothing thatfits you. Too tight, people are distracted. Too loose, you just looksloppy. For women, wearing tight pants or shirts is not attractive. Ifyou've got it, don't flaunt it - it ruins it for your man （there are afew things best left to the imagination, honey）. Loose, slightly clingyor drapey things are best, or else things that just fit you and yourshape well but not tight. Men, us women with taste and style reallydon't know why some guys think their pants sagging down is somehowattractive. It's not! And neither is huge, wide leg pants. Both justtell us you don't really care. You're following the crowd. Wear thingsthat fit you nicely, please . . . And for goodness sake, both sexes,stay away from logos and printed shirts! Most people you may ask do notfind this attractive. Stop being some company's billboard, and show us you.
你穿衣服thatfits。太緊的話，人們就會分心。太鬆了，你就顯得邋遢。對於女性來說，穿緊身褲或襯衫並不吸引人。如果你有它,不為你的男人炫耀它——廢墟(有幾個事情最好留給想象,蜂蜜)。寬鬆的、稍微粘著的、有褶皺的東西是最好的，或者其他適合你和你的身材但不緊的東西。男人，我們這些有品味和風格的女人，真的不知道為什麼有些男人會覺得他們的褲子下垂很有魅力。它不是!也不是寬大的褲腿褲。兩者都只是告訴我們你真的不在乎。你下面的人群。請穿適合你的衣服…看在上帝的份上，無論男女，都要遠離商標和印花襯衫!你可能會問，大多數人並不覺得這有吸引力。別再當公司的廣告牌了，給我們看看。
nǐ chuān yī fú thatfits。tài jǐn de huà ，rén men jiù huì fèn xīn 。tài sōng le ，nǐ jiù xiǎn dé lā tā 。duì yú nǚ xìng lái shuō ，chuān jǐn shēn kù huò chèn shān bìng bú xī yǐn rén 。rú guǒ nǐ yǒu tā ,bú wéi nǐ de nán rén xuàn yào tā ——fèi xū (yǒu jǐ gè shì qíng zuì hǎo liú gěi xiǎng xiàng ,fēng mì )。kuān sōng de 、shāo wēi zhān zhe de 、yǒu zhě zhòu de dōng xī shì zuì hǎo de ，huò zhě qí tā shì hé nǐ hé nǐ de shēn cái dàn bú jǐn de dōng xī 。nán rén ，wǒ men zhè xiē yǒu pǐn wèi hé fēng gé de nǚ rén ，zhēn de bú zhī dào wéi shí me yǒu xiē nán rén huì jiào dé tā men de kù zǐ xià chuí hěn yǒu mèi lì 。tā bú shì !yě bú shì kuān dà de kù tuǐ kù 。liǎng zhě dōu zhī shì gào sù wǒ men nǐ zhēn de bú zài hū 。nǐ xià miàn de rén qún 。qǐng chuān shì hé nǐ de yī fú …kàn zài shàng dì de fèn shàng ，wú lùn nán nǚ ，dōu yào yuǎn lí shāng biāo hé yìn huā chèn shān !nǐ kě néng huì wèn ，dà duō shù rén bìng bú jiào dé zhè yǒu xī yǐn lì 。bié zài dāng gōng sī de guǎng gào pái le ，gěi wǒ men kàn kàn 。
Be interested in other man
對別人感興趣
duì bié rén gǎn xìng qù
Be interested inthe other person. Again, ask them questions. Don't talk about yourself… remove attention from yourself. If you are genuinely interested inthe person, it will come across. And if you want to talk aboutyourself, you'll find that putting the other person first actuallyopens him up to return the favor and ask you questions. See how funthis is?
對別人感興趣。再一次,問他們問題。不要談論你自己，把注意力從自己身上移開。如果你真的對這個人感興趣，他會給你留下深刻的印象。如果你想談論你自己，你會發現把對方放在第一位會讓他打開局面，以回報你的幫助並問你問題。看到funthis是如何?
duì bié rén gǎn xìng qù 。zài yī cì ,wèn tā men wèn tí 。bú yào tán lùn nǐ zì jǐ ，bǎ zhù yì lì cóng zì jǐ shēn shàng yí kāi 。rú guǒ nǐ zhēn de duì zhè gè rén gǎn xìng qù ，tā huì gěi nǐ liú xià shēn kè de yìn xiàng 。rú guǒ nǐ xiǎng tán lùn nǐ zì jǐ ，nǐ huì fā xiàn bǎ duì fāng fàng zài dì yī wèi huì ràng tā dǎ kāi jú miàn ，yǐ huí bào nǐ de bāng zhù bìng wèn nǐ wèn tí 。kàn dào funthisshì rú hé ?
Put away inhibitions
放好壓抑
fàng hǎo yā yì
Ok, there is a timeand a place to play shy. But, for the most part, putting awayinhibitions makes people feel comfortable around you. Even if you goahead and do something and totally mess it up, it really makes everyonecomfortable around you and want to be around you. People are fragile,especially those who don't put into practice what I'm saying in thisarticle. And so that means they need someone like you to lean on.
好吧，有一段時間和一個地方可以害羞。但是，在很大程度上，壓抑情緒會讓你周圍的人感到舒服。即使你勇往直前，去做某件事，把它搞砸了，它真的會讓你身邊的每一個人都適合你，想要和你在一起。人是脆弱的，尤其是那些沒有實踐我在這篇文章中所說的話的人。這意味著他們需要像你這樣的人來依靠。
hǎo ba ，yǒu yī duàn shí jiān hé yī gè dì fāng kě yǐ hài xiū 。dàn shì ，zài hěn dà chéng dù shàng ，yā yì qíng xù huì ràng nǐ zhōu wéi de rén gǎn dào shū fú 。jí shǐ nǐ yǒng wǎng zhí qián ，qù zuò mǒu jiàn shì ，bǎ tā gǎo zá le ，tā zhēn de huì ràng nǐ shēn biān de měi yī gè rén dōu shì hé nǐ ，xiǎng yào hé nǐ zài yī qǐ 。rén shì cuì ruò de ，yóu qí shì nà xiē méi yǒu shí jiàn wǒ zài zhè piān wén zhāng zhōng suǒ shuō de huà de rén 。zhè yì wèi zhe tā men xū yào xiàng nǐ zhè yàng de rén lái yī kào 。
So, yes it ispossible to be the most attractive person in the world. If you've noticed the ring throughout the article, it has a lot to do with just being confident in who you are. Nobody needs to look like Tom Cruise orWill Smith or their wives, or anyone else for that matter. Everyperson, of every race, of every nationality, of every background, canbe the most attractive person in the world.
所以，是的，成為世界上最有魅力的人是可能的。如果你在整篇文章中都注意到了這枚戒指，這和你對自己的自信有很大關係。沒人需要看上去像湯姆·克魯斯、威爾·史密斯或者他們的妻子，或者其他任何人。每個人，每個種族，每個民族，每個背景，都可以成為世界上最有魅力的人。
suǒ yǐ ，shì de ，chéng wéi shì jiè shàng zuì yǒu mèi lì de rén shì kě néng de 。rú guǒ nǐ zài zhěng piān wén zhāng zhōng dōu zhù yì dào le zhè méi jiè zhǐ ，zhè hé nǐ duì zì jǐ de zì xìn yǒu hěn dà guān xì 。méi rén xū yào kàn shàng qù xiàng tāng mǔ ·kè lǔ sī 、wēi ěr ·shǐ mì sī huò zhě tā men de qī zǐ ，huò zhě qí tā rèn hé rén 。měi gè rén ，měi gè zhǒng zú ，měi gè mín zú ，měi gè bèi jǐng ，dōu kě yǐ chéng wéi shì jiè shàng zuì yǒu mèi lì de rén 。
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