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一、獨立的人生未必就會有完滿的結局，依賴的人生或許就可以衣食無憂。有時候想來，人就不能有牽掛，人一有了牽掛，那麼就彷彿被命運套住了脖頸，就會寢食不安，是會冥思苦想，甚至走火入魔。an independent life may not have a complete ending, and a dependent life may be able to live without worries about food and clothing. Sometimes when you think about it, you can't be concerned. When you have a concern, you feel as if you are tied to your neck by fate, you will sleep and eat uneasily, you will meditate and even go mad.
二、 費盡心思和你聊天的樣子，我自己都討厭自己。我是那麼驕傲的一個人，為你卸掉所有鎧甲，卻依舊得不到你的心疼。拼命的想要抓住你，卻發現風裡只剩我自己。
I hate myself for the way I try to chat with you. I am so proud of a person, for you to unload all the armor, but still can not get your heartache. Desperately trying to catch you, only to find myself in the wind.
三、也許只有失去過才懂得，回憶只是傷痛，有的人，早已在分別的那天消失在這個世界，翻遍你所有曾經寫下的心情，滿是滄桑，聽著你聽過的歌，明白了你歷經的苦痛，曾經最愛的人，多年過去，物是人非，我們再也回不去了，只能好好把你珍藏在心裡。
Maybe only after losing it can we understand that memory is only pain. Some people have already disappeared in the world on the day of separation. They can read all the feelings you wrote down, full of vicissitudes of life, listen to the songs you heard, and understand the pain you have experienced, the people you loved most, after many years, people have different opinions and opinions. We can no longer go back, we can only treasure you in our hearts.
四、生命短短數十載，每個人來帶世界上走一遭，不過是跟歲月借了一個軀殼而已，從哪裡來，最終都還要回哪裡去。只不過在這個過程中有的人把靈魂留在了這個世界上，有的人把靈魂帶到了泥土裡。
life is only a few decades. Everyone comes to take the world for a visit, but only borrows a body with the years. Where they come from, they will eventually go back. Only in this process, some people left their souls in the world, and some people brought their souls to the soil.
六、明言著輕蔑什麼人，並不是十足的輕蔑。惟沉默是最高的輕蔑-最高的輕蔑是無言，而且連眼珠也不轉過去。
It is not a complete scorn to speak clearly of someone who scorns. Silence is the highest scorn - the highest scorn is silence and does not even turn your eyes.
五、過馬路的時候，男人總是緊緊的牽著你的手，將你緊緊的靠在他的身邊。緊張地看著過往的車輛。其實現在有個紅綠燈的馬路並不那麼危險。但在男人心中，他不希望你陷入一點點危險之中。男人過馬路時緊緊牽在你的這個習慣性的動作，說明了他是真心愛你。
When crossing the street, the man always holds your hand tightly and holds you close to him. Looking nervously at the passing cars. In fact, the road with a traffic light is not so dangerous. But in a man's mind, he doesn't want you to be in a little danger. The habitual action of a man holding you tightly when crossing the street shows that he really loves you.
六、不談幾度風雨幾度歌，只到前路雖險莫回頭。世上沒有不彎的路，人間沒有不謝的花，人這一生能力有限，但是努力無限。努力做一個善良的人，做一個心態陽光的人，做一個積極向上的人，用正能量激發自己，也感染身邊的朋友，你陽光，世界也會因你而精彩！
do not talk about a few storms and songs, only to the road ahead, although dangerous. There is no bending road in the world, there are no thankless flowers in the world, people have limited ability in this life, but efforts are unlimited. Strive to be a kind person, a sunny person, a positive person, with positive energy to stimulate themselves, but also infected with the friends around you, your sunshine, the world will be wonderful because of you!
七、還有一些我們熟悉的將要死去我們不熟悉的慢慢生根。有些人，錯過了，那就算了吧；緣分到了盡頭，誰也回不了頭，雖然有遺憾，但也留下了紀念，只要問心無愧，那就讓自己活得漂亮一點。
there are some things we are familiar with that are going to die and that we are not familiar with slowly take root. Some people, missed, then forget it; fate to the end, no one can turn back, although there are regrets, but also left a memorial, as long as a clear conscience, that let oneself live a bit more beautiful.
八、往事累積在心中無法抹去，為了能夠再次看到你，我在最痛苦的時候忍住哭泣，讓自己堅強走下去，相信總有一天，會與你在某個時間某個地點再次遇見。若你愛我的方式，已不同於往昔，不如我們變換下位置，再看一看你我初見愛情的樣子。時間消逝，有想念的人，再無法愛任何人。
the past accumulated in my heart can not be erased, in order to see you again, I am in the most painful time to stop crying and let myself go strong, I believe that one day, I will meet you again at a certain time and place. If you love me in a different way than in the past, let's change our position and see how you and I first saw love. As time goes by, those who miss you can no longer love anyone.
九、不跟你說話談心，不陪你嬉笑打鬧，你們雖在彼此身邊，但相隔的似乎是世界上最遙遠的距離。一個低頭玩手機，而另一個的內心正經歷著絕望。不管你和他談論多麼重要的事情，他都不搭理你，不會和你好好溝通，依然自顧自的玩手機。
do not talk to you, do not accompany you to laugh and play, although you are around each other, but seems to be the furthest distance in the world. One is bowing his head and playing with his cell phone, while the other is experiencing despair. No matter how important things you talk to him, he doesn't pay attention to you, doesn't communicate well with you, and still plays with his cell phone.
十、之所以念念不捨，不是因為敗在了我有多麼愛你，而是你憑什麼不愛我。永遠不要因為別人的言論而懷疑自己，也不要因為喜歡誰而看低自己，你所有的優缺點，都是為了能接納你這個樣子的人而準備的。
The reason why you miss me is not because of how much I love you, but because of why you don't love me. Never doubt yourself because of what others say, nor belittle yourself because of who you like. All your strengths and weaknesses are prepared to accept people like you.
十一、開心就笑，累了就睡覺，醒了就微笑。生活，沒什麼大不了。不要總是羨慕別人的美好，要用心經營自己的幸福。放棄了，就不該後悔。失去了，就不該回憶。晚安。
Laugh when you are happy, sleep when you are tired, and smile when you wake up. Life is no big deal. Don't always envy the beauty of others, but manage your own happiness with your heart. If you give up, you shouldn't regret it. If you lose it, you shouldn't remember it. Good night.
十二、 對一個人最好的就是放下，無論再想念也不會去打擾，終有一天你會知道，失去比擁有更踏實。 有些東西無論如何渴望，卻還是得不到的，那麼就忘卻吧。
The best thing for a person is to put it down. No matter how much you miss it, you won't disturb it. One day you will know that loss is more solid than possession. There are things that you can't get, no matter how much you yearn for, so forget about them.
十三、 男人對女人的傷害，不一定是他愛上了別人，而是他在她有所期待的時候讓她失望，在她脆弱的時候沒有扶她一把，僅此而已。你永遠都不會知道自己到底有多堅強，直到有一天你除了堅強別無選擇。單獨的、不受約束的人嚐嚐會被打敗，因為每個人都註定要走向死亡。
Men's harm to women is not necessarily that they fall in love with others, but that they disappoint her when she expects something, and fail to give her a hand when she is weak, that's all. You never know how strong you are until one day you have no choice but to be strong. Individual, unconstrained people will be defeated because everyone is doomed to die.
十四、最好的時光，是一個人坐在某處安安靜靜讀書的時候。就像最美妙的孤獨，是一個人坐在街邊長凳不為任何人的等候。
The best time is when one is sitting somewhere quietly reading. Like the most beautiful loneliness, is a person sitting on a bench on the street waiting for no one.
十五、越長大越會懷念小時候，小時候可以因為一塊糖哭的撕心裂肺，也可以因為一個棒冰而笑的燦爛，然而長大了，越來越少的人會管你，越來越少有的會因為什麼去從心底裡開心快樂。小時候那麼想長成大人，那麼長大了，真的好嗎。
The older you grow, the more you will miss your childhood. When you are young, you can cry because of a piece of sugar, tear your heart and tear your lungs, or laugh because of a lollipop. However, when you grow up, fewer and fewer people will care about you, and fewer and fewer people will be happy from the bottom of their hearts because of what. When I was a kid, I wanted to grow up to be an adult. When I grow up, it's really good.
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